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I guess you could feel this way because the world focuses so much on accepting specifically gay, bisexual and transgender people that no one ever really talks about other sexualities or relationship interests, but this, like most other relationship interests, is normal. Polyamory is a consensual relationship, so your brother is in a mutual and co......   reply

its a poly relationship! they all love each other equally so its not like he's dating all of them behind their backs. the other 3 people in the relationship also love each other! if your uncomfortable being in a relationship with your brother then tell him but dont be upset because he is in a poly relationship.   reply

This is completely normal, well, for US at least. Maybe you´re just too comfortable seeing all straight, gay, and lesbian couples. Not enough of polygamous. It´s understandable why you´d be confused, but this is your brother, if it makes him happy, you should support him. Who knows, pulling an act like this again could ruin a relationship.   reply

u reacted exactly how my cousin reacted when she found out im ina relationship with 2 other guys. poly relationship is 100% valid, if u think ur brother is weird or their relationship is wrong, take a pause and look at urself first bc ur the one whos got problems and not him. u owe him an apology   reply

I'm sorry you feel so traumatized by what your dad did to your family when you were younger. I can see how this would trigger you because you see it as unfaithful and unfair, and likely you're seeing it as a betrayal to your family structure. You don't see it as an honest and committed relationship, and I totally get that. I'm a monogamous person, ......   reply

I'm gonna be a bit controversial and say it's weird. Now, I wouldn't suggest you try to talk him out of it or anything so long as all four of them are happy with it, I'm just saying it's out of the ordinary. Honestly maybe just tell him not to bring them to your house without warning and to not talk about it because it's awkward? On a personal leve......   reply

I read all the other comments and I'm going to give you my perspective. If that happened to me, I would probably freak out and just not speak to my brother. Polygamy is a thing where I'm from, however (though it's dying out, kind of) but it's one man having several wives, not a guy having three boyfriends. I can imagine it was hard for you to get ......   reply

Your brother and his relationship are 1000% valid, the only problem I'm seeing is you. Reactions like yours are why people don't feel like they can be open about shit.   reply