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17 03,2024
At the end of the day pronouns are really just a title, so the way someone identifies doesn't really matter, so when it comes to sexuality I don't think gender really matters, though I won't deny that identifying as he/him and also being a lesbian seem like an oxymoron to me (or at least in my opinion) I don't think its offensive necessarily to s......   reply
17 03,2024
Can someone explain [Question]
aanya ♥
17 03,2024
How is trans real
How can genitals not determine gender but surgery can affirm it. How can someone be a he/him lesbian.

What does genderfluid mean, and is it offensive to say you’re in the female mood? I know you’re not supposed to control it but like what does it mean when you “feel masculine”.

Dylan Mulvaney’s song prompted me to ask this. I don’t take offense (as a woman) in that her lyrics depict being a woman is just about shopping and sex, and I don’t actually think thats all that dylan feels. So what do trans woman like actually feel?

I’m not denying trans people are real I just have no idea what it feels like and I’m trying not to be biased, I’m sorry if I invalidated you/your experience, there is nothing wrong with doing stereotypical female things (as mentioned in dylans song). But like how would one define a woman despite saying the obvious, the way I see it is if you’re trans you just wanna be seen as a different gender (which is the whole metric is identifying as such) Gender is a social construct so it’s not even a real thing right, it’s just how you want to be seen by society.

Also what the hell does pansexuals do. I know the meaning and as I’m typing this I assume you can still be attracted to people but I guess you don’t “fall in love” until you really get to know them (correct me if I’m wrong)

I know minimal history on transsexuals, that there is a science for it but younger trans people kinda dismiss the term. I halfway know the trans med idea: based in that gender dysphoria is in a sense a mental illness that’s “cured” by surgery. (Could be very wrong!!)

One last thing being “genderless” is something I really don’t understand. I dont necessarily feel too attached to the female gender but I don’t really question because of the XX. I’m wondering if someone could explain what that would feel like, being genderless/they/them

Ultimately I will respect people’s pronouns as in most cases (lol neo) it’s easy and using a new name is also very simple. But I still have these questions and I’m just a silly curious person on what it’s actually like not being cis.
17 03,2024
LGBT experience [Answer]
_rugmuncher
16 03,2024
True sigma chads lock in and keep up their mewing streak and refrain from yapping. Those kids don’t even got the lore down right.   reply
16 03,2024
I personally wouldn't tell her... Because she has her own opinions on it. I mean, she calls your other friend weird so it's clear what her opinion is. Just let her be and i recommend never changing in the same room/ stall with her so she can NEVER say you were peeking at her when she's unclothed. Never do anything sussy like kiss her anywhere or ge......   reply
16 03,2024
oui [Answer]
_rugmuncher
16 03,2024
People who are unlabeled are valid. You could be still be questioning yourself or still looking for a label you feel comfortable with or you just don’t have an affinity with the current labels that are available to define you. People who try and force you to label yourself are indeed, very annoying. You gotta hit em with the look   reply
16 03,2024
LGBT experience [Answer]
Ur_bisexual_bi*ch
16 03,2024
See it depends on the sort of homophobia you're talking about There's people who do not accept LGBTQ members, yet are respectful of them and know to mind their own buisness But then there's ones who are aggressive and hateful. Generally I consider two things before acting: 1) How important is this person in my life? If they're important, only then......   reply
16 03,2024
It's not illegal in my country but it's not legal either. Meaning you won't get arrested for it but people can discriminate against you no problemo and lots of stuff like insurance, hospital visits, consent for a loved one's surgery, division of property is limited or unavailable in homo relationships because you're not considered a family because ......   reply
16 03,2024
LGBT experience [Answer]
Namjesus
16 03,2024
I just dont come out to em. They are stupid and there is no benefit arguring with stupid people.   reply
16 03,2024
oui [Answer]
Ur_bisexual_bi*ch
16 03,2024
Contrary to my username I'm probably not indeed Bi, i may very well be pan or aromantic I do not know, and frankly I don't really care. Why do I need to label everything and fit everything into a box so that others feel comfortable? Like idm you assuming my gender or sexual orientation, what I mind is invalidating it As long as you don't do that, t......   reply
16 03,2024
oui [Answer]
im gonna be straight with you
16 03,2024
True I don't wanna label so if asked I just say I'm whatever. If they persist, I say I'm normal (dodging the Q but indirectly seem to be telling them I'm straight so they back off bc straight people say they're normal). If they still insist for a more specific answer, I just say I'm straight regardless of who I am because sadly I live in a Christia......   reply
16 03,2024

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