Sorry. I realize the ML went through a certain amount of trauma, but he only saw things from his own perspective, didn't even try to see anything from hers, and refused to listen to her. The fact that he was this way after having been a public manwhore for years means that he is incapable of empathy and understanding others. That also says that grudges are more important than understanding to him. "It's all about me" is a syndrome that I particularly despise, having seen evidence of it all my life.
His Ex's Well-Kept Secret