~Yuki~'s manga / #messed up(46)

F.U.C.K. Patriarchy My guess is 1. His parents dotted on him so much, he think he can do anything and grow without empathy. 2. The indifference towards her sister made them hating each other. Thats why he really wants to dominate (or even kill) his sister . Recently, I just read some article by Prof. Elizabeth Yardley (Professor of Criminology and Director of Birmingham City University’s Centre for Applied Criminology) about 3 theories why a child later will become a murderer, it's Anti-Mothers, Uber-Mothers, Passive Mothers. For anti-mothers, problems begin within the family. They are often the victims of abuse and neglect themselves, survivors of brutal upbringings who never experienced a healthy family environment. Not all women who experience violent families will go on to recreate abusive homes. They are more likely to harm themselves than others, internalising their trauma as they struggle to wrestle back the control they never had as children. But a few women will repeat the cycle. These are the women for whom templates for family life have never been rewritten - their extended families and communities often reinforcing their experiences or denying them altogether. They turn from victims of brutalization to ruthless aggressors - the same kind of aggressors they had once despised. For uber-mothers, problems begin outside of the family. They come from relatively stable, if not "traditional" nuclear family environments. However, they become acutely aware of society's expectations of families and motherhood from an early age. They are the victims of a discriminatory and arbitrary moral framework in which their families of origin fail to come up to scratch. As mothers, they are determined that their children will not be restricted by the same labels they believe held them back - illegitimacy, poverty, minority. They become mother-managers who carefully chart the childhood and adolescence of their sons and constantly struggle to keep them on course. They are the gatekeepers that hold off the outside world, protecting their child from scrutiny as their behaviour becomes increasingly deviant. Passive mothers fear the judgement that society may impose on their children. These mothers have lived out their lives following the rules, not crossing the lines, fulfilling social expectations. They have always been quiet, passive, just ticking along. Therefore when their children begin to bend the rules and cross society's moral and legal boundaries the fear of labelling compels them to respond in the only way they know - denial and inaction. Sweep it under the carpet. It will go away. It's a phase. They will grow out of it. In case all of you wondering why "Mother" not father or parents in general, or it's sexist etc etc. It's because "Mother" make the greatest impact according to her research. In this case, their parents is a fucking patriarchy cultist and so passive. His father won't let his son's "abnormality" got recorded just to save his family name Source : https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/dr-elizabeth-yardley-334/making-of-murderers_b_9934416.html