Ppl get all "awww so manipulative awww"... that is why I dont like reluctantant Dom. The seme knew the kinks of the uke and also that he was STRAIGHT and still agreed to play along. He could had steped out to find a sweet vanilla partner if he was unable to understand that a way of a M to express love is submiting themselves. I think that ppl who put the normative "feelings" above others are the manipulative ones tbh.
Motto Musunde, Aite Waya