Wow how could he say that? You who moves on from lovers and never enter a relationship are gonna criticize your friend for being indecisive. You are going to make him feel bad about not making a decision that could very well end up with him losing his family, his job, his reputation, and any and all sense of community.
I feel for Jihoo, I really do. I'm queer but I also love my parents dearly even though they have outdated views.
Not everyone can just cut their family out of their lives. All people aren't built the same. Personally I couldn't do it either.
Its not healthy but humans are complicated like that.
I've lost all sympathy for that friend.
The Man Who Can't Taste