OH MY GOSH I FINALLY FOUND THE TITLE AGAIN AFTER SEARCHING FOR ETERNITY... I EVEN TYPED THE WHOLE PLOT AND THANK GOD IT LED ME TO A WEBSITE WHERE SOMEONE ASKED THE SAME THING. I have first read this back in 2020 and have forgotten about it until now I had the sudden urge to read it as soon as I remembered. This was just so good.
It's Not That I Want to Wear Women's Clothing