Yuri's d1ldo's manga / #Older seme(76)

Pedophilia isn't always sexual the fact that the seme had feelings for uke when he was at a young age is quite concerning, it's great that he waited and all but that should be an obvious. I always wonder why it's so romanticized in manga's especially the older ones, sure the legal age in japanese is 13 but it doesn't mean it's ok it's still very fucked up. Why can't authors simply make them legal or have them develop feelings later on, not hating btw just simply stating my opinion