Donuts's manga / #Cop(12)

I don't really like Miro.. The way he handles Ian and their relationship feels a bit off to me.. It's kinda like he always put himself in a safe position (?), it's always Ian who expresses his affection after their relationship is established. I also don't like how he doesn't clean up his relationship with his ex. Looks like he doesn't put any importance to his proposal either. I know their love is the homey kind, but comparing how he acts now to how he was when it was only a crush .. idk..