danini's manga / #consent(7)

maybe i'm nuts, but i really don't get why people think the blond dude was toxic? having the thought of "assaulting" (re: have sex) your partner while he's sleeping, liking the thought, and then discussing and asking for explicit consent before doing it is health afaik. like shit, i like the idea of doing/having something similar done to me-- add consent and there's nothing 'toxic' to speak of??? idk people are whack