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Nah rather than a good person it feels more like the hyung is cutting his losses. Since now that the uke and hyesung have had sex this Fwb relationship with the uke could get messy for him I suppose. Cause if he was good then why would he invite and then sleep with the uke after knowing he slept with the person he loved? But that's just my conjecture

Oh yeah that’s true.

like ive said so many times, they showed his backstory to show that he clearly has uncontrollable anxiety about his love for his friend that he couldn't take it and left. thats anxiety love and sex is his coping mechanism. yes he obviously shouldnt have done that, even his fuck buddy said so, but its about understanding the behavior and not judging him too hard. oml

he clearly slept with his fuck buddy out of panic. he was not doing it in a spiteful way, he was overwhelmed by the seme suddenly coming back into his life. thats the whole point

Projection

and no im not projecting no matter what this person says omg

We are talking about the hyung not the uke (￣∇￣")

Oops wrong one.

That is also true. I actually never looked at as the anxiety of love but now that u said it, it definitely is more clear.

Well rather than understand his behaviour it makes more sense to angry at such behaviour why because while you can completely understand where the uke is coming from. The people here got angry for the seme. Cause what has he done? Suddenly lost his best friend of 15 years. Tried to follow him to the army. Realised his feelings and tried to reconnect. Even though he was helped by the liquid courage he still managed to confess his feelings properly. only to find out its being reciprocated because he got kissed by the uke. He woke up feeling like the happiest person in the world thinking things will finally work out for them and they will reconnect and get together. Now think about what will happen when he realises that the guy he loves went and slept with someone else and that someone else is also a dislikeable guy who took advantage of his loneliness and anxiety. So yea it makes sense to get angry at the uke because he more or less brought this on himself. Because the seme deserves none of it. How can you expect anyone to be understanding of such behaviour when this will blantently hurt the other person (￣∇￣").
Well seems like I went on a rant too

I wasn’t meaning to judge just pointing out some things. Sorry if my comment sounded mean or harsh I just meant he was ruining his relationship before it even started. (You are right the love anxiety tho)

PERIOD.

i get what youre saying, but im just saying we need to not be so harsh on the uke. ppl were saying really terrible things clearly not thinking of his mental state.
also the fact that ppl were acting like the uke was doing it to spite the seme in some way really rubbed me the wrong way. because he didn't say that he loves him back and they didn't start dating. obviously yes it would still hurt the seme to know but again we don't need to shame the uke. and the uke will definitely spend time actually healing and talking to the seme about it instead of continuing to pursue sex as a coping mechanism.