daisuke's Topics (211)

youre funny i laughed

fr like autism doesn't make you a coward. Like okay you don't understand social clues, but taking other kindness for granted and "oh what's the point anyway" is not the way you talk to your loved ones

fr!! having autism is not an excuse with getting away on doing something bad or using someone and it's irritating seeing people justify his actions with him being like that...like noo it just gives those who are neurodivergent a bad look

ML’s communication is not that great though. Like that time he was sick he didn’t notify Gunjoon AT ALL (causing him to be anxious). And then when Gunjoon asked about it he just brushed it off without really explaining what he was going through. Idkkk he’s actually not the best example of a healthy relationship right now

lets be realistic here whenever anyone gets sick you think they have the energy to be texting people and not resting, im not saying the ML is a definition of healthy relationship but you can tell that he is someone who has a hard time relying on people but is also helpful to others. Yes there needs to be even more communication but people in the comments are acting like the ML isn't talking with him at all

Replying to a text is that hard when you’re in a meeting? No. He not on a fking hike. He just doesnt think its important to reply to the mc. And wtf is “busy”? He is just blocking communication and adding to the trust deficit.

I can agree with both sides. On one hand it’s not hard to let your lover know you’re sick, but on the other hand if you’re more used to casual relationships I can see how that would be hard for you.

yes it is?? lmao have you ever actually been in a meeting?? it would look weird asf to randomly start picking up your phone and start texting just cause you got a text bffr

yeah this part!! there is ofc some disconnect because the effort for casual relationships isn't as much needed like for exclusive ones

Have you been in a meeting? If you're presenting something, you're definitely not going to be on your phone and you're listening you can't be on your phone. Can't even glance at it. It'll also be silent

Eh, it depends on the industry. In my position (i.e. gov.), if I get a text during a meeting I’m answering because I have a department answering to me and their concerns are my main priority. That said, my partner is an attorney so they would never answer a text during a meeting or it would anger their clients.

Overall, I think neither is in the wrong for how they feel, they just haven’t learned the forms of communication that work with the other.

Nope no meeting lasts a whole fking day. And if it does it is your duty to tell your fam/ friends who r worried about you when u take a break not wait till its 10 at night. It takes a sec to reply to missed call ffs. Its on the lock screen itself. The only reason youd not reply is if you’re out of service range (aka on a hike) or if you dont think its important enough.

he has every right to not drop everything and answer right away, if he said he is busy multiple times its not gonna make it any less busy bffr now, just because you dont answer someone right away doesn't make them less important that is so manipulative and guilt trippy to make someone feel like its their fault for having a busy schedule and not being able to answer right away.