
How old is Fay and how old is the Duke? Fay looks like she is 12 and the duke could be her dad. I need clarification!

Whenever people say stuff like that, I feel really sad for others who are legitimate adults but look way younger like Fey. Outsiders constantly judge their partners and automatically assume bad things.
I’ve talked to so many people who experience judging eyes despite themselves and their partners being the exact same age.
I also feel bad for people who are very young but look like adults. I know several people personally that are teenagers (or were at the time of the incidents) who are constantly mistaken for college-aged despite being 16 and under. Years ago, a relative of an in-law was so tall and mature-looking that she was assumed to be 21 at age 13 and had multiple guys hit on her, with some older women assuming her father was her boyfriend. ( ̄∇ ̄") Very unfortunate.

I talked specifically about one aspect which did not sit right with me
It was how she was called a "child"
I never said I had a problem with her constitution. I was merely specifying for the op. I think you should read my comment before saying all this.
I've seen this all irl and suffered from this too so I know what I am talking about

I fully read your comment. I was making a note based on what you said at the very bottom, and I quote, “Anyways she's an adult despite her built that looks like a 14 y/o.”
I wasn’t trying to come at you or anything. I just legitimately feel bad for anyone who looks like Fey as a young-looking adult (and vice versa), especially when people say things that are accusatory based on one’s appearance without knowing them at all. I have seen that so many times in webtoons and in real life. Like, are young-looking adults only allowed to have a romantic interest in other adults who look young?? And then their partners are accused of projecting pedophilic interests onto them, which I know does happen, but it’s not as common as some tend to believe…
Anyway, like I said, I wasn’t getting mad or anything. I was just going on a rabbit trail. Sorry about that. ( ̄∇ ̄")

I understand where you are coming from but how are you so sure that what I meant by that comment at the end was trying to be dismissive to the fact that there are adults that do look rather young?
I was telling the op that even tho she looks young she is still a women and an adult. Some people do have a constitution that makes them look younger/older.
The op said the FL looked like she was 12 and I wanted to clarify that there can still be people who look young despite being an adult.
Some people naturally age well is exactly what I meant maybe I should have worded it better

Although mangaka's/webtoon artists these days do indeed tend to make the female leads rather child like, from their appearance upto their behavior, which can be rather alarming tbh.
I mean yea there do exist women with a constitution like such but
Asian countries really do like to make the females child looking, which is deep rooted problem talked about in parliament and their adverse effects on the women of the country.
You should search up how recently a women in japan talked about these issues but the parliament simply laughed at it, she had to specify "this is not a laughing matter"
Korea is still much better but japan where anime and manga's like these are so high in production, leading to children getting harassed online
Every dam chapter makes me cry! Now my makeup is ruined.
Its giving me headache. Im crying too