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As someone who used to only read BL it's quite simple. I grew up reading about female protagonists in every way, shape, and form imaginable. You get tired of the helpless lead. For avid readers, you get tired of the attempted strong female trope that's never done correctly. You are correct; people have less hatred toward those who primarily read......
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Everytime I try a reincarnated baby manga. I realize why I don't like em.

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