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So... this might be tmi but wow that's not how being a sub or dom works lmao also the number one thing when you do bdsm is SSC, Safe Sane and Consensual. If it's not consensual then it's not bdsm, it's abuse. It bothers me whenever Yaoi stories try to get it right because I really have never seen them actually get it right. I understand that this is supposed to be an a/o/b type thing but like the problem is that BDSM is actually real like... idk whenever I make a post like this someone always yells at me in the comments but listen unless you're in the BDSM community as well what I'm saying might not be as well understood. There already exists problems of people claiming to practice BDSM as an excuse to abuse someone which stems from one party knowing less about BDSM than the other. (Do your research, thoroughly, if you're actually interested in it, for your own safety and the safety of the people/person you're doing it with.) I feel like a dad lmao but be safe y'all, I don't think I'm going to be able to read this story without it rubbing me the wrong way.
i agree with what you said, but i have two points to make:
in this manga it's simply mentioned how the terms COME from bdsm (since i'm the translator i just also want to mention they actually said 'sm'. i translated it as bdsm because bondage and discipline are present too), but the story isn't actually bdsm. at least not how it is in reality. which brings me to my next point, that yaoi doesn't reflect reality. i think i can count on one hand the realistic stories i've read. and to me that's fine, i'm aware of the cliches in yaoi. lack of consent is sadly one of them
"Welcome to Capitalism" lmao, it's funny because it's true rip