Because they will put a lot of pressure on you to fit their ideals and keep you all to themselves...it means your freedom will be lost. Yanderes are like users. They only love a person for what they can offer them (company, love, hopes, dreams) and only give and protect you to benefit their own selfish goals.
Once you no longer fit a yandere's exp...... reply
sometimes you think you know them, but you don't. and the feeling of 'oh it was just my delusion' is the WORST. Rose tinted glasses are very different from positivity...
And then once your delusional perspective of them disappears you're just like 'wtf' because they are so different. I've gone thru this experience many times and lemme tell you it's...... reply
its a valid feeling to go thru but life is only once and very short. so if u like yaoi then please go for it. it's very kind that you are concerned for gay men and their feelings, as well. some BL is also lgbtq+ approved, so there's good eggs and bad eggs in yaoi, but even then please read what you'd like to read. reply
bro i was reading yaoi when i was a kid too. this is wild. stop blaming kids for accessing adult things so early, its literally posted out there for any one to consume. idk why its so cool to hate on kids nowadays when kids stumbling upon adult content is a thing that's happened for many decades.
it's not kids fault that the internet has so littl...... 2 reply
y'all ever had an experience when somebody try to force you to fit their expectations? or have you also experienced obsession before when you don't see someone for who they really are?
so in my case, sometimes i have admired people too much and put them on a pedestal whilst being mean to myself which is so bad cuz i get too insecure, and can also make the other person feel uncomfy too. i dont recommend it, because then i realized too late that said person is every bit as human as me. and let them mistreat me too ;; its just all around bad vibes on both sides.
sometimes i feel like i should make a smut manga (one volume only). maybe a bl or even a hetero one, but im just so unsure about what 2 do!! but i wonder what makes a GOOD smut manga? i personally think to me this is what makes a good one: - some fire (like you can feel the emotions during the scene) like HEAT FEEL HOT - a little bit of plot build up so i can understand wtf is going on - a teensy flashback - a bit of insight into both characters' personalities and their opinions of one another (like if its a whole 4 chapters, at least one chapter about who they are helps me enjoy it more) - them saying original lines whilst having sex i guess? sometimes it just feels like they're using the typical lines only sometimes and it lacks a bit of personality - pretty art?????
hi my ass is feeling so bitter after a heartbreak betrayal pls can you recommend any bl (or even a gl/ hetero manga) with like a touching warm love story that make u cry w joy before i become so bitter that i turn to stone or some shit?
I just wanna say this. Some forms of love do not fit some people and others do, and that is fine. Not everybody can work past their differences and/or compromise and that's when a relationship ends, I guess?? You don't have to put up with everything. It's ok to leave if it hurts too much.