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Omfg lmao this plot reminds me of a friend. She was so nervous to have sex with her boyfriend for the first time, and wanted to make sure she wasn't a dead fish in bed. So, instead of talking to her bf about it, she asked her best friend (girl) and childhood friend (boy) to help her practice for sex... By having sex.

I was so fucking weirded out (at that point I'd only been in Japan 4 months) and I was like "you're cheating???" But to my surprise, none of them considered it as such since "there were no feelings involved" and "she was doing it to make him (bf) happy in bed". As someone who considers cheating (of any form) a dealbreaker in a relationship, it was the first time I'd seen such a tolerant attitude towards infidelity. And the longer I stayed in Japan, the more stories and people I met who had more or less the same views which made it really hard not to generalise the entire country.

That friend and her boyfriend? Yeah, they've been married 3 years now and she just gave birth a few months ago. Want to hear another kicker? Because she's not been feeling well enough for sex after the birth, she's allowed him to visit soaplands so he can get off. Fucking lmao.