Eldraco

I don't get it. Yeah it's sad that he feels like he is nothing but why do Ian need to comfort and reaffirm him in a moment where he is expressing how he feels and how hurt he is as well. TJ never did that for Ian. They both could've said something to reassure each other but they didn't It's always "I feel bad for TJ and Ian should have said something" for some reason. I know you probably didn't do it on purpose but I seriously don't get it.

If you read again since the beginning tj even since he was a kid care more about wealth and status, he's willingly by his own willingness join the gang. It's not surprising that he didn't prioritize ian as a human, but want ian as the prize for him to keep. He care about hole, not a human being as a partner with personalities and needs

He kinda made himself a product of his environment. He had a chance to be with his foster family but of course he never makes good decisions.

I wonder how yall read bc tu had chances at having foster homes and growing up in other environments and he denied them, he CHOSE the life he uses now as an excuse, a 35yo down low man btw he’s not 19 anymore and the last person reassuring him shouldn’t be the victim of his very abuse

Dang I forgot dude is in his mid 30s, he acts like an immature young adult. Not even gonna say child/kid because children don’t act like him, and children can be taught better. TJ has gone beyond being taught, Ian, the apparent love of his life, couldn’t even influence TJ to do better. TJ truly does not care.

I have been saying this, Ian has been abused his whole life.

And not to mention he kinda project himself for power like DK, he wants to be powerful like that guy lmao. And also i find this tj glazer confusing too. Ian put up so much with tj even during his low moment, so idkw the commenter think ian never reassure tj when his entire 19 years he stayed with imperfect tj and put up so much with his shit

I remember people trying so hard to make this narrative that Jo is like DK or Jason.

I know it’s rich coming from me, I love toxicity, but I have my “toxic on” “toxic off” days. And with wet sand, it’s always. I think the fans of TJ made me hate TJ more LMAO. They do a good job of getting a bad reputation on Twitter, TikTok, etc.

It’s insane how dead and blind they are on purpose. The glazing makes zero sense to me besides pure trolls. This is what people mean when they say it’s hard to fight against stupidity.

Ian put up with too much for TJ’s shit, and TJ admitted how he knows Ian put up with him.

Like what more do they want from ian bruh, ian stayed with tj even when he's nobody, getting dragged to gang bc of him, and put up sm with TJ's bullshit to the point ian put aside his own desire, he lost his true personalities, lost his dream, and think he didn't deserve something better because he's used to the kind of shitty shared trauma life with tj, being molded to cater to TJ's internalized homophobia macho culture behavior. It's obvious the spark of his love towards tj disappear long long ago, it was like he's settling with his life— until he gets the taste of something he always wish and hesitant to take it bc he's so used to the shitty life, ian looked down on his own image. He's ruined. And now that in this chapter 83 he finally exploded, even it still look tame, he's not angry enough in my eyes it's like he's exhausted thinking about how much time he waste with TJ, even crying felt tiring for ian. Free ian for real. Most tj glazers are self inserting themselves as ian, they're not reading ian as a character written in the story, they want ian to be like how they love TJ so seeing ian didn't behave like they want is triggering for them.

Ao3 exist, atp they should just create a fanfiction of yn x TJ, dont use Ian