bl with really good amazing teasing smut like this (⊙…⊙ ) https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/4_week_lover/
bl where bottom suggests to top and actually does top next time they thwack thrust twitch
this doesnt completely fit what u described but the bottom tops him due to some circumstances lol https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/fukakouryoku_unlock/
bl with city boy x country boy
this is absolutely hilarious :
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/happy_shitty_life/
What’s that manga where this girl can switch identities with other people and she uses it to become pretty and make her way up as a theatre actress?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kasane/
Sounds like this one, she uses lipstick to kiss people and steal their faces.