Nobody in that family (except Lorraina) unreasonably hated her at first in the first life before Lorainna put a spell on her, they were just indifferent to her or giving her time to get use to the environment but she turns and acted like a maid instead of proving herself. They were equally indifferent to Lorraina even with the spell on the fl but Lorraina is just good at making it seem like they like her plus she’s actively making a name of herself and eventually proving herself. Do notice that Lorraina wasn’t still given a pomegranate even with all that effort/scheming she did but they easily did it with the fl, it shows that it would’ve taken her half as effort Lorraine did in the first life. She could’ve asked for the moon’s cradle in the first life and they would’ve given it to her, it doesn’t necessarily have to be Lorraina.