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Maybe these don't count, but maybe they do. I was walking home once when I was 14 and the pervert who used to live next tried to convince me to get into his car. I didn;t because another neighbor made a loud sound in his garage and the pervert fled in his car. He kidnapped a girl within the next couple of months. (side note: This guy was always ......   1 reply
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My Mom had terrible baby blues after I was born. Apparently, at one point she planned to kill herself and wrote out a whole apology letter for me. She put it in the baby book and I was going through it for school/curiosity. I thought it was a card because there was about 10 of them in envelopes in there. Well it wasn't. It made me cry and I put it ......   reply
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I played the trombone in middle school and high school. Fun fact I actually really hated band and tried to drop out several times but my friends were all in it and wanted me to stay. Because I easily gave in to peer preassure I did. I would hope everyday that my teacher would ask me to drop out with my terrible music. I didn't even get a choice ei......   2 reply
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Keep doing sports and tap dancing. Don't do gymnastics you can't even do a cart wheel what were you thinking?   reply
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Like I'm bored and thought this might be an interesting question and I wanted to vent. lol

I think my personal drama right now is that one of my former best friends growing up turned out to be a creep. He stopped talking to us right after graduation (blocked us on everything). 10 years later we all reconnected. He was in love with my Bestie and was being a friend to her but was also like telling me that he was planning their wedding and shit after she rejected him. He's been through 2 wives and 10 years. Why would a kid crush still be there. We had fun but he'd still do creepy things making us uncomfortable.

He then started partying with seniors in hs and hanging out with his pdfile cousin every weekend and told us at the end of our friendship he was receiving nudes from a 17-year-old. We're almost 30 it's creepy. He then Told us we couldn't be friends because he has a gf. He previously blamed the other ex's for blocking/ditching us in the past. This girl was a different teenager who turned freshly legal the day before. He is now trying to use mental health as an excuse for his creepy behavior. Trying to suicide bait us back into being friends but neither of us wants that.

Some honorable mentions of shitty things he told us in passing we thought was creepy:
Told us that he pushed someone off a ladder because he was trying to quit smoking.
Told us he only hit his ex once (talking about 2nd wife).
He was hanging out with his cousin when I was Facetiming him and his cousin brought up a girl that falsely accused him of rape. (idk if this is true but he does lack noticeable boundaries.)
Told me he didn't love his children and told bestie he planned to have kids he could see with his next gf.
Told us a girl was banned from a party from being a slut. Then admitted it was because she flirted with him knowing he had a gf. I think she was just talking to him he tends to think he's the shit. This is also how we found out he was dating a teenager telling us she was 20 when we asked.

TLDR
Don't try to force a friendship with someone you find creepy even if you were best friends at one point. It's not worth it.
10 10,2024