There's a guy who has been in love with me for 2 years now. We began as friends, both felt attracted and began dating after 3 months of friendship. Now we only dated for 2 months and these 2 months were very hard for me as I wasn't able to revert back his feelings and wasn't comfortable with him being my boyfriend ( he didn't do anything except overwhelming with the amount of love he had for me). I felt that I'm not being a good girlfriend and it was just too much for me to handle, so I broke up with him. Since then I've been his best friend, been there for him in his good and bad times and out bond has grown a lot. It's just that he's still in love with me and want us to be together whereas I've never given him any false hope and made I clear that somehow I don't feel the same.
Now after 2 years there's a new guy I like, what's different is that I have those feelings for him which I didn't have for my best friend. It's just that if I choose him I'll lose my best friend and if I choose my best friend as my partner I'm afraid that the past will repeat and what if I still don't develop those feelings for him.
I'm sorry for such a long message but I'd really like some help/suggestions. ╥﹏╥
P.S. both guys are green flags but theirs vibes are different. They both have something the other one's missing ( T﹏T )
You do not owe anyone a relationship on basis of being a good friend. You made it clear, you did your part rest is on him if he wants to continue being your friend (who is interested in you) w a motive of getting together despite all the rejections ITS ON HIM. Don't go w "what ifs" shoot your shot w ur crush if it's not 100% yes (for your bsf that is) then it's a no but the same can't be said for your crush bc you're 100% into him
Hey is this happening with u guys too that the new chapters are not loading?
Yes! For me it's super weird because they won't load on my tablet, but they do in my cellphone. It's so annoying
It’s not even loading in my cellphone
Oh no TTwTT what’s goin ooooooon