I used to be a people pleaser until I realized that when you please people, they treat you like shit because at some point they think they deserve that treatment from you. Like, for most people, the nicer you are to people, the more they want to bully you just because they can. Idk if it'll turn out that way for you, but there isn't a set way. I t......
are you an eternalism/four-dimensional Minkowski spacetime thruther or sth? While it's true that there's no objective times, that doesnt mean the subjective times that take into account space are any less real. Your past or future will never be the same as another person or objects past or future but that doesn't really have an impact on its import......
Ghost of the Boy type shit right here, yall in cahoots? Learn from the past and live for the future kinda response idk...
Past, present, and future, are all occurring simultaneously. Time is not linear
There is only the present. The past are memories and the future is speculation (= imagination). "But the future will happen!" yes - then it will be your now. In other words, now is all that matters. Taking steps to improve your now and to live in a way today that will always keep your now as healthy and good as possible. By eating healthy today, by......
since you can't say for sure what's the true nature of 'reality' then it's wise to choose to live life like it does matter, if at the end of your experience as a 'separate self' you recognize that actually nothing ever mattered, you still had a more pleasant experience than someone who lived life like nothing mattered
People pleaser