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One of my biggest pet peeves when it comes to manga, especially the erotic 6 ch ones, is when the, for example, MC is into BDSM or has any type of kink and at the end of the manga the MC is "cured", saying that the MC only does 'it' without BDSM or kinks, or that their partner is "the one" who makes them normal so they can't have sex including their fantasies like...
BITCH STFU THERE IS NO DEEP MEANING (for some there is) AS TO WHY I AM A BDSM'ER, NO ONE CAN "CURE" ME I JUST LIKE BEING HIT AND HITTING.
end of discussion.
I'm vanilla and totally agree with you.
Bdsm is just s kink, it isn't something bad.
its probably because there is a link between bdsm and trauma (be it from childhood/sexual assault etc). many people are into bdsm because they think hitting is how love is shown to them since many got hit by their former lover or parents. so once someone overcomes their trauma, they arent into bdsm aanymore. its not always why people are into bdsm, but that why a vast majority is.
i would recommend you to read more about bdsm from the psychological perspective and maybe watch some documentaries. its really interesting.
Exactlyyyyy! Glad to hear I wasn't the only one bothered by it!! They be treating bdsm like some sort of a disease lol
Well,usually people who are into bdsm have some childhood trauma which prove to be poison for them and they just start to believe that hurting their partner is just a way of affection or sumn-- being a dom who's into bdsm,I do sometimes get pissed off at statements who mention words like “curing”&“fixing” but it's their own perspective--plus technically, comics also depict bdsm as trauma
Check out this manga--it depicts their “curing” perspectives (〜￣△￣)〜
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hogu_hagyeongsu/?MP25
I totally understand that and I'm glad that the people who overcame their trauma did but I'm just sayin that those manga where for example someone just has a clothing kink gets "fixed/cured" and there is no deep meaning behing their fantasies
This is just straight up rape and harassment... Lovely