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Lmao. Don't.

ID READ THE MANGA YET , BUT DO U MEAN WHEN SOEMONE COMA THEY'LL HAVE A LONG DREAM ?

Cause if u said so then the answer is yes

OMG YES?? WAIT WHAT HOW is there a documentary or smth ?

IDK IF THERES DOCUMENTARY BUT MY GRANDPA WENT COMA ABOUT 3 MONTH AND HE SAID HE DREAM ABOUT SOMEONE . THTS HOW IK U CAN DREAM WHILE IN COMA BUT I DONT THINK EVERYONE GO THROUGH IT

U CAN SEARCH DID PEOPLE DREAMING WHILE IN COMA AND THERE WILL BE MANY PEOPLE ANSWER ABOUT THE SITUATION , U CAN FOUND IN REDDIT WEBSITE !

ty!! i'll look it up <33

My pleasure (づ￣ ³￣)づ

this a sp0il3r about what happened to taejoo and his crazy boyfriend






HERE IS IT


so he broke up with him about two chapters after this one and then later he was about to give back the spare key he had with his bfs unit and then he overheard his bf and his friend talking about telling taejoo something and taejoo's boyfriend was arguing with his friend not to tell taejoo about it.

it seemed to me that he r@ped taejoo while he was drunk and bc of taejoo's personality he ofc had to take responsibility of what happened and there goes the tea. another theory of mine is that he made it seem that taejoo did something to him, but in reality nothing happened..i would not include the clippets of dialouge that i was able to translate bc i might not get delivered again but here's a one line dialouge that might trigger some of y'alls ☠

"I have no regrets! If I hadn't done that, Taejoo hyung wouldn't even look at me!"

but here are the raws: https://newtoki95.com/webtoon/8670012?stx=%ED%97%A4%EC%96%B4%EC%A7%90%EC%9D%98%EB%B0%A9%EB%B2%95+%EB%B0%A9%EB%B2%95&toon=BL%2FGL

I can see your comment, you don't have to cry.

THAT FUCKING BITCH I'VE NEVER WANTED TO KILL SOME1 THIS BAD B4

The best thing I learned is to gaslight your parents before they can do it to you. My mom is the same but will also blame me for her health problems and failures but when I learned to turn the tables on her everything changed so fast. life is so peaceful when they stop have things to hold over you, like it gets way better when you start having your own money so hang in there

Ye me too bro its sad we have to learn how to be toxic just to survive tho

My friend gave me the same advice and I just can’t figure out how to do it she was in a similar situation as me but gained control. The most I can do right now is politely decline gifts from my mom Bc she always takes them back or holds it over my head later but even when I refuse nicely she calls me ungrateful so...still figuring things out ig

i think the only thing you should accept is money...keep it and save it over time and instead of refusing the gifts request more grand more expensive like things that they can't afford and sugarcoat it like saying it'll be good in the future,, i'll have to use it one day and it's a great investment..and dialouges like that if they try to say that ur ungrateful...hang in there tho!!

Well basically if she accuses u of smt u say like smt along the lines of “ Oh so u don’t trust me?”, and to deny gifts u gotta sweet talk that shit and say like “ Buy smt for urself with that money I don’t need it” or “ You’ve given me so much already i can’t take more from u :(“ . And in the situation of her holding the gift over ur head u could accuse her of not loving u bc if it was a genuine gift it wouldnt be used as a threat. In my experience of gas lighting u just gotta be really adamant like “ if u loved me then why would u say that?” . Um poorly explained and someone will probably have better advice but just trying to help. Good luck :)

Right some times just letting them win is the best option tho. Bc tension in the household and their bad mood days on end is just not worth it. Unsolicited advice but just wanted to help
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Thank you I may try this..I just recently started speaking up for myself it hasn’t been working out too well

I’m just gonna put this as it’s own comment cause I noticed a lot of similar stuff being said. 1 don’t let them know what you have up your sleeve ever, always lie abt how much money you have and have money in a place they can’t access. 2. If you’re older, slowly reminding them of your independence and the fact that you will leave and never come back reminds them of their effects on you cause it messes with the control they think they have over you. 3. Avoid small fights/arguments or dismiss them cause it makes them feel stupid for trying to fight you. 4. Question why they act the way they do (ex. My mom will blow up my phone to the point that I can’t use it if I don’t answer right away and needs to know everything abt me so I asked her in a rly condescending way why she’s so obsessive and why she can’t understand that I can’t call her at all times cause she’s messing with my sleep and school). 5. EXTRACURRICULARS if staying in your house is hell for you then having things to do outside is a great excuse

When it comes to gaslighting you just have to try a bunch of things and see what works best. (This is going to sound rly bad but you gotta do what you gotta do to survive) threatening to kill yourself (and rly putting emphasis on it being their fault) has worked a lot for me but be careful how you use that one. My family’s rly toxic so they never suggest sending me off Nd stuff. Blaming them for your shortcomings or problems also works pretty well (I had to live at home for a while and I ended up failing a semester so this one works rly well for school if it’s big in the family). Reminding your parents that they’re overbearing (even when they haven’t done anything) also keeps them in check and if they hit you with the “its cause they care” tell them they’re literally causing you stress and pain and basically messing with your flow. Using school as an excuse to ignore them is also great to get them off your back. When it comes to gifts make sure it’s know that you don’t need it and if they take it back it means there’s a good chance they would hold it against you later (in my experience) if you do end up taking it and they hold it over your head remind them you said you didn’t want them also extra points if you get them to give you a reason cause then they don’t rly know what to do. Also playing the victim is much easier than trying to defend yourself.

Sorry this is so long but I hope this helps but use this with caution cause this is just from my experience and my family is VERY TOXIC. Each situation is different and I’m lucky enough to be old enough to be responsible for myself but at the time it was a very different situation. Also don’t be hard on yourself you have to remember that you’re always in fight of flight and that has so many effects on all aspects of your life even when you can’t see it now. Support and friends are really helpful in giving you a safe place to lean back on (choose your friends carefully as well). I’m only now trying to unpack all the trauma my parents gave me and it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, I didn’t even think they affected me this much but yeah. Sorry again for how long this was :)

Right and you feel so secluded from everything cause it’s hard to talk abt or explain

I left a massive paragraph here that might help so you can check it out :)

This is the hardest part but you have to keep it up honestly, they get rly defensive cause they feel like they can’t control you but you have to keep it up until it does become normal and for me now I constantly try to push that more and more cause it gives me more freedom and has loosen their grip so much

i think yuki is that otherworlder who rimuru met in that city ingrashia or something. the one rimuru gave the mangas to and gave rimuru the teacher position to help the kids. the black haired boy who knows shizu.

i think

i see!! so he's the one ppl has been saying that is a enemy...i think? thank you for clarifying!