he's my first love, like literally. cuz when covid i was just a weeb who never socialized, so he was the first guy i got close to. i was friends with him from 2020-2024, but in january he suddenly acted sweet to me? so yeah let's just say we became a situationship... but in february he ghosted me, i don't know what my fault was, because we still ta......
I’ve been where you’re at before and I feel for you… First of all I need you to know that there is NOTHING wrong with you! There’s a lot of pressure to claim a label but it’s more important to listen to your gut and do what feels right for you. Remember that you’re not obligated to give someone attention or affection just because they s......
Frankly, the labels don't matter- and that's coming from someone who's spent days pondering their own. For now, explain your boundaries. Say you're trying to find yourself out. Maybe you can still be friends with hugging benefits! But if your partner really loves you, he'll understand. If he can't accept your boundaries, then he was never worth i......
having a pet is a serious responsibility and you should have considered whether you are financially able to care for another life before committing to it. you absolutely need to do everything you can to scrounge up the money to take him to the vet for an exam at the very least. try selling things you don't need, doing some online surveys that pay, ......
IM NOT A VETERINARIAN but I would suggest getting him clothing or something to cover the wound so his scratching doesn’t bother it as much and you could also try gong to the vet and asking what they would do in the case of abscess, and possibly asking for help because I have seen some vets that would rather help the animal than leave it hurt beca......
Distance yourself & Block him, I know you feel bad about ghosting (I did too) but you should cut him off - being too nice in these situations will just put a strain on yourself, I was in similar situations and now that I'm the older one I can tell you it is honestly weird & creepy how these people behave. You'll find better people to befriend. ......
So, I'm sure you know this guy the best, we don't know what kinda guy he is or his temperment but you're right to be wary about this situation, you guys don't know each other very well, and you have already rejected him, so I d k why he would do that, that honestly sounds messed up, I wouldn't let this go on further personally
The most important thing is to prioritize yourself first, if you’re uncomfortable then you need to communicate abt this to him. Maybe for starter you can ask, ‘Why are you calling me babe?’. After that you can see what’s going on and you can tell & explain to him how uncomfortable you are with his behavior. I would say immediately ghost him......
eww LMAO i had a guy like that he would constantly call me my love and babe after i clearly rejected him to somehow gaslight me into thinking we were dating also sent me random love poems he googled and acted like he wrote them. once got me ice cream, followed me to my house bc i refused to take it and threw it at my back as i went into the buildin......
He is a creep. Dont let yourself feel bad. Prioritize yourself please. Making you uncomfortable is enough reason to block him on everything. Also the fact that u rejected him but he is still talking as if u both are dating is your cue to get the fuck away from him.
how long did it take for u to move on?