
Can someone bring me up to speed with this story? I last read it back when it had its long hiatus. I can see that Jooin is still doing his usual bullshit with yahwi despite many chapters of him being pissed and him having his emotional smack down with Yahwi. Which seems like it was unsuccessful and fell apart somewhere

Oh my god that's so him. I completely agree with you here. Leaving a guy you harassed/bullied and sexually assaulted for 6 years is not a "charitable" or "loving" act. You don't rape or assault someone you love, especially deliberately. I think the excuse of "i love him so much but I must leave him :'(" is lazy storytelling because it does nothing but make you roll your eyes and pity his character. Mfer should've just left permanently out of guilt alone, or idk apologized immediately(either of which would've actually been character development!!!)instead of waiting a 6 years just to kiss Jooin's boots and slither his way back into Jooins life. Anyway I'm rambling.

This chapter felt like a "readers, I support trans people :'( and trans people? *PLEASE* don't kill yourself :'(((" while also creating the idea that whether a transwoman is pre or post op is important(it isnt). Fuck "it's realistic" it's just fucking bizarre imo. Woohoo trans rep in a manhwa but also the way they addressed it was completely unnecessary. Sincerely, a trans person

The manga DID say that pre and post-op isn’t important — the guys looking at the two ignorant dudes were thinking this was all pointless and the blonde guy that slept with her said it didn’t matter to him.
Also personally I like this manhwa’s approach where it’s honest about how even friendly well-meaning dudes can say some pretty ignorant stuff, rather than having a whole cast of socially aware guys. Storytelling-wise the topic it talks about isn’t any different from all the other issues the manhwa talks about, like the girl that liked pegging or the dad who is doing sex work for his daughter.

I understand that but I think you're missing the point. It was unnecessary how it was portrayed. It would've been more interesting if it was used as a more active learning moment if the characters thinking "this is ridiculous and pointless" were more up and open about it, confrontational even. Rolling your eyes and not explaining to them why they're being weird and ignorant about trans people is not honest. It's passive storytelling. And assuming that your audience understands what is being talked about and understands fully why what they said was ignorant and stupid would be better then- "Oh well it didn't matter to the guy she had sex with and they were both wrong in trying to clock trans people just by looking at them. So clearly stereotypes are the wrong way to go". The whole point was that it was unnecessary to have these characters just be like "oh the boys are being boys again" and proceed to resolve it with the framing that it had just felt awkward and out of place to me. I appreciate the representation! I really do, but the author could've done better.
I appreciate the response and push back though

1 mean, I think it’s a pretty good way of storytelling seeing as it’s show don’t tell. Personally, I like it better when an author doesn’t tell you in explicit words that “That wasn’t very cool guys because…” Instead it showed the audience the reality of what trans ppl hear day to day about themselves and proved how wrong it was. Ofc to each their own tho, this is just my take on it !!
Why do all these stories start out fun and horny and turn evil and rapey wtfff
Girl fr , I swear "even if u don't love me" was adorable at first then idk what happened