If he held her so dear and loved her to the point of going through war for years not once but twice even though it traumatized him why didn't he show he cared? instead he left her with his mother who had killed her in one of the lifes ignored the letter about her saying she had problems with her in laws and in another past life treated her coldly to the point she was basically was a doll to use and put on the shelf when he pleases. she was ready to make it work in her present life and he said nah uh and she was like bet ill make my own path. That should not have been the thing wake up and change a little bit because that is life times to late.