
the MC really reminds me of jiang cheng. is that just me? like, her sibling didn;t listen to her and was partially the reason why her family dies and her home burned down. She thought she was abandoned, but it turns out her sibling sacrificed her power to save her. even though she knows that the super powerful evil guy would have come after them anyways, she cant help but blame her sister for the distruction of the family. and now the purple lotus motif.......

The person they're talking about is Jiang Cheng, a secondary character(it feels weird saying that ) from mo dao zu shi, otherwise known as grandmaster of demonic cultivation.
There's a novel(recommended), a manhua, a donghua(really recommended too), a live action, a video game, audio episodes, chibi series, and a manga in the works.
Def recommend

every one else thinks it ok to treat her badly based on her looks and only change their tune when they see she is pretty. what terrible people.

It’s not just about that I kind of get what the authors trying to do. It is partly clearly about her luxe, but if you think more deeply about it, it’s more on the cast system that they have in that time. That was the old look so you’re faring to an old aristocratic Format that just doesn’t work and mostly because they’re literal nobility so they need to follow the trends very closely. It’s not about what they want just because they wanted it’s about looking graceful in the eyes of royalty is about looking in your precision, so still following that old custom . makes you seem lesser. They make fun of the whole family though not just her it’s just that she kept begging for a marriage because of her family, which made it worse. And above all else she is a woman which sadly makes it really
his expression doesn't match his words :/