The thing about traumas is that it's not something that you can fix overnight. It goes a long way (a long time) and yes, it can't justify the actions of people who are deliberately hurting others through it. But the thing is, the uke pulled back the moment he realized that his traumas will get the best of him. He immediately ended it with the seme, although his way of ending it hurt the seme.
He was groomed. He was called 'disgusting' just because he's a guy. He has his traumas. It's valid to pull back, to feel scared, and to not fully commit to anything because of your traumas. What can't be justified is the way he has hurt the seme but none of us should say that him acting that way, or feeling that way is not valid.
Sorry a. Pero, ayaw niyo ba talaga sa uke dahil sinaktan niya 'yung seme, o ayaw niyo sa kanya dahil nagkaroon siya ng maraming sex partners aside from the seme? Diba? It's the gender roles again. On how ukes are supposed to stay loyal and how semes can still be cool and lovable even if they had a lot of sexual relationships in their past and present. Double standards are annoying.
i love how we all collectively agree that the uke should ignore the seme and make him suffer HAHAHAHAHAHA