I don't get it what did the uke mean that he only date gay men when the seme confessed was the seme bi. You know what no one is asking this in the comment section so it was probably already explain in the manga
Well, I understood it a little differently. Yeah, he said it was just an excuse, but actually it came from the firm belief that he can't be happy as gay. The uke came from a happy, kind and close family and believed his family would accept him unconditionally, but they didn't. Instead they grew totally apart and that shocked him so much that he believed that being gay there could not be any happy path possible at all. Thus he didn't want to make his beloved unhappy along with him, thinking he still had the choice to be together with a woman as "normal" - without being estranged from his family and treated strangely by his surroundings.
He thought that, if he had been gay all along, the happy normal path wouldn't have been a choice anyway - then it wouldn't have been his fault to deprive the seme of whatever he would lose by being gay. So he rejected him to protect him from becoming unhappy by being gay, totally ignoring him becoming unhappy by not being able to be together with his beloved.
That's why projecting one's own feelings onto someone else is so dangerous ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍
To be honest whoever can upload the fastest should upload a chapter imo
The uploaders wants to give a window of opportunity for people to actually read the manga in the official website/app (a.k.a paying the authors, essentially). We are readers in an illegal site, and if the chapters are uploaded here as soon as they are out, people wouldn't consider buying at the official sites. We are not in a position to demand immediate uploads here, remember that. Again, we are reading on this site illegally.
Also, uploading over a group/individual who has said that they will be uploading regularly is just disrespectful in general. You're disregarding their time and effort to screenshot and formatting these manhwas for us to read comfortably.
That's a very detailed explanation, although I don't think speed of uploading is the problem, what I am bothered personally is the fact that they were petty enough to repost after someone posted. Like I yet it disrespect or whatever, but the person who posted also took their time to translate. I read raws particularly those in Korean, Thai and Chinese and I've seen how much it would take to translate and cut pictures to the right angle and stuff.
The person who uploaded wasn't the original uploader but they still took their time to do it as well. Is their time less than the original uploader. I'm grateful to both, but the pettiness really isn't nice either. I'm sure the person understands now but to repost after they repost, that's like you cleaning and then me re-cleaning after you're done. It's just as disrespectful.
There’s no translations its screenshotting the chapter from lezhin. And they shouldnt have uploaded over them like sorry it’s disrespectful ig but each chapter clearly says do not upload over me and they did so they lost that opportunity for respect by posting too early and by posting over the original uploaded
What Slayeon said is correct. This particular manhwa has an official translation on lezhin, that you must pay for to read. The uploader group/individual is simply uploading those translated chapters here. The problem here is that the 'original' uploader, as you put it, has stated in the beginning of each chapter their upload schedule and for others not to upload after them. And yet, the secondary uploader didn't respect their wishes. That is what's wrong. If there wasn't any warnings, yes, uploading over someone else might be okay.
Also, if the situation really was that this manhwa is a fan translation and not an official one. Does the original uploader not take the time to translate and clean the manhwa as well? What do you mean petty? Imagine if you had a project that you're really excited about. You've planned an entire timeline for that project, but then someone else completely steals the idea from you and took all the credit. It doesn't matter that the second uploader 'put effort' into it, they should've respected the original uploader's wishes in the first place. It's not like they abandoned the manhwa. It was an effort that didn't need to be put on the first place.
I now have a thing for sensitive nipples in yaoi
Especially from buff men