it's actually about one precious friend of mine (i'm a girl) he is a guy(17yo) , he's a real genius , smart , tall, handsome easy-going , humble and generous he's one of the best people you can ever know .though he probably doesn't know rumors are being spread about him being gay and i was told by a very trsuted source that he was lookin' weirdly at the boys in the changing room and he kinda bothers them with taking some pics secretly . p.s we live in a very strict muslim society so that's intolerable i don't know what to do it hurts me so much to know he's suffering from it and i can't even tell him anything or do anything for him and i doubt he can tell me out of his own will i'm so lost and i feel even guilty for leaving him alone being an lgbt supporter but what if i ask him and it destroys him to know that he became the subject of such rumors wether they are true or not it just sucks can anyone help PLEASE ?
You should try to approach that person and talk about it privately. Who knows he might need your help. If the rumours were false, then you should tell to anyone about it, and if it’s true, try to advice him
Do him a favor and tell him about the rumours. The rumours are eventually going to reach him, and he‘ll wish someone had warned him. Be a good friend and tell him, support him, and protect him. Trust me, if he is in fact gay, you’ll want to tell him ASAP. We‘ve had these cases at my high school as well. Usually it was too late for that person and the rumours had gotten so bad that they just left school abruptly. Dont judge him and support his decisions if they make sense
You should really told him about the rumors that are true or not bc if he learns that you were aware of it but kept silence it can bee understood as a betrayal
u dunno how much this helped me i've been struggling with this for months now and it didn't cross my mind to post it here ! thank you thank you very much i hope it goes well for him really he deserves it ! :'(((((
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it's actually about one precious friend of mine (i'm a girl) he is a guy(17yo) , he's a real genius , smart , tall, handsome easy-going , humble and generous he's one of the best people you can ever know .though he probably doesn't know rumors are being spread about him being gay and i was told by a very trsuted source that he was lookin' weirdly at the boys in the changing room and he kinda bothers them with taking some pics secretly . p.s we live in a very strict muslim society so that's intolerable i don't know what to do it hurts me so much to know he's suffering from it and i can't even tell him anything or do anything for him and i doubt he can tell me out of his own will i'm so lost and i feel even guilty for leaving him alone being an lgbt supporter but what if i ask him and it destroys him to know that he became the subject of such rumors wether they are true or not it just sucks can anyone help PLEASE ?
if i were you i would be honest on what i heard to him so he would know his current condition and yea surely i would support him.
You should try to approach that person and talk about it privately. Who knows he might need your help. If the rumours were false, then you should tell to anyone about it, and if it’s true, try to advice him
thanks i'll just have to go for it ! :'-)
Do him a favor and tell him about the rumours. The rumours are eventually going to reach him, and he‘ll wish someone had warned him. Be a good friend and tell him, support him, and protect him. Trust me, if he is in fact gay, you’ll want to tell him ASAP. We‘ve had these cases at my high school as well. Usually it was too late for that person and the rumours had gotten so bad that they just left school abruptly. Dont judge him and support his decisions if they make sense
Good luck :) you can do this
You should really told him about the rumors that are true or not bc if he learns that you were aware of it but kept silence it can bee understood as a betrayal
u dunno how much this helped me i've been struggling with this for months now and it didn't cross my mind to post it here ! thank you thank you very much i hope it goes well for him really he deserves it ! :'(((((