a lot of people are saying that minjoon shouldnt act like a victim. and i agree with that but please do remember his trauma is still very much very fresh in his mind. also so dam is inexperienced but what is great about her character is tjat she is always trying to learn from her previous mistakes.
however for both of them to have a healthy relationship so dam needs to understand minjoons limits. also she should have learned what situations made him uncomfortable and what to do to avoid triggering him. not to mention there was little to no aftercare. also it was completely wrong for her to try and place therapist. i know she apologized for it but i think she she should understand the limits of being a dom.
and minjoon should sympathize with so dam cause they both were outed. except he is not. he is acting like he is the one facing the brunt of everything. even though so dam was outed, she still called to check up on him and put his wellbeing before hers. now that was the best dom thing to do. however it appears as though he is very ungrateful towards rhe efforts so dam put into their relationship.
if he was not comfortable with having a bdsm relationship after the blonde haired bastard, then he shouldnt have asked her to put on the firsr collar.
as far as chapter 10, ive come to the conclusion thst winston is an absolute idiot. considering he is the reason why violet wants to die and he still doesnt understand that even though she grew up as a "prim and proper princess" she too is traumatized and hurt. he is very narrow minded and can only see things from his victim pov. he completely ignores the hardships that she is going/did go through. even after violet figured out that the reason they switch is because she tries to kill herself. she sees that as a barrier to her freedom.
she cant live in peace with him around
and she cant die in peace either.
her world is just so cruel
They rlly lack communication that leads to their misunderstandings. Plus even though his parents are such scumbags to mc, they act good to ml, and since she doesnt say anything he didn't knew what was going on. In like few more chaps he will know about the closet thing, and will get angry to his parents and stop giving them money for parties
SIMP
MY GUY DOWN BAD