Tsunmimi's Topics (346)

NOT THE LEGS PACK IT SANGWOO

Nah, you’re actually spitting facts. I completely forgot about that for a moment. This some highkey mafia shit, whoever wants fluffy sex and plot ain’t got no place here.

imagine how they would react when they find out what happens in an ACTUAL MAFIA.. like bruh was the cover n title not enough for unto realise there was going to be some insane shit going down.. n I’m pretty sure this story has bdsm inclinations so

Period
*Clink glass*

They’d probably pee their pants and shout bloody rape from now on....

I agree with you. Ive read array of mafia stories and honestly, what Taesung doing to SY is not that extreme.
Some main's even torture and use worse psychological tricks so that Seme get to keep Uke by their side.

I dislike Taesung but agree this story is a masterpiece, idk who is expecting a healthy relationship.

Sorry, meant to upvote!

I'll be honest, I'm like that but at the same time I know its wrong. It just the idea of getting dominated and not getting hurt is what I prefer. And of course, it is all about the people when having sex. If the guy is someone psycho, better steer clear. I had enough warehouse and killing stalking in me.(￣∇￣")

No it’s fine to be into being dominated and all
But I’m actuality that isn’t rape
The reason why it’s called rape and no bdsm is because it’s without consent
There’s a difference between playing the submissive-dominant sex play it’s fine I don’t have a problem with it
But RAPE......rape is terrifying and scary cause the person being submissive is being like that not out of consent or expectation but out of fear and dread...so from what you’ve said it’s not wrong that you have a kink for being dominated but a kink for rape like actual rape now that’s just...NO

wow i didnt think rape kink is a thing. I just thought it was the same as being dominated. people really evolve into something

You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, so don't judge people when you have no idea what it is that you're judging. A rape kink has nothing to do with actual real life rape. Nobody really wants to be raped. Nobody's looking at real life rape cases and thinks "wow, that's hot" (except for human garbage who says stuff like "where was she when I was a student?!"). It's the fantasy that makes it hot. The fact that everything harmful was taken out of it, that nothing that happens here has a negative effect on anybody.
It's like watching a horror movie. Just because you like horror movies doesn't mean that you want people to be murdered or that you want to kill them yourself. It's okay to not understand what a rape kink is. But insulting and kink-shaming everybody with a different taste in porn than you just because you don't understand them is a horrible thing to do.

Are you stupid or something
Did you read what I said who is shaming anybody
You have absolutely no sense at all of what I wrote
Read it again before you write stupid shit and start frog leaping into some narrow minded idiotic one reply
When did I shame anybody people like you twist what people say into something hateful and spiteful.....without understanding anything

Kink shaming means that you posted something that is supposed to make people feel bad about their kinks. And that's exactly what you did.
Seriously, if you don't know what you're writing about maybe try to ask people what the topic in question even means before you immediately insult them and make up your own definition of those terms.

Pffftthahahah Aha I knew I’d definitely meet a pearl clutcher
Ahhhh my apologies I should not talk about pearls right because I might be shaming people that like pearls too right? Aya-I can imagine

What? Are you a native speaker? Clutching your pearls only applies when somebody is shocked or pretends to be shocked. This is not a shocking situation.
Anyways, you only seem to be interested in insulting other people so I don't see the point in trying to have a discussion with you.

And given the comment that was made on the last chapter and other comments of the scene which involves someone raping Rix and someone comments it’s awakens my “rape kink”........and me saying it’s not okay and calling bs then you come brandishing words like “shaming” and “kink shaming” lmao
Whoa hollup mehnnn you must be really smart and very open minded then...Well my good person it is quiet unfortunate to have exchanged words with you

It’s sarcasm Einstein....like I said it’s very unfortunate

Apparently there’s a spectrum to it cause normal BDSM also have such foreplay done with “CONSENT” and reason why I called out on this particular comment is that it was after the rape scene with the incubus and I’m like regardless dream or not he was being raped how can it awaken a kink in anyone

CNC or "Consensual Non-Consent" is actually a type of BDSM/kinkplay where two consentin' adults re-enact rape-type scenarios. Ofc it's all within the means of safety and there are rules and guidelines set between the participatin' members-- but to say "ew gross people who are into this are disturbing" would actually be invalidating a LOT of trauma survivors. This is somethin' 8 years of counseling and therapy has taught me since bein' a CSA survivor left me with a few darker kinks than most.

And if you look it up it's actually a quite common fantasy in a lot of women.

That and it's fiction. It's tagged. If you don't like readin' it then drop it and leave. It's literally that simple. That's the cool thing about fictional settings with characters or creatures that cannot feel anything in a realistic sense.

Lol! Don’t mind them. They think role playing being raped by someone they actually care about is the same as being raped by a total stranger. Acting out a rape fetish between lovers is not the same as someone being raped by random people they otherwise wouldn’t have sex with; ever! Idiots.
I was sexually harassed by someone I didn’t have feelings for and till today, I still feel dirty and wish them dead whenever I think about it. It’s not a funny feeling but people tend to brush stuff like this aside all the time.
I personally can’t bear to read stories where the uke gets raped by someone other than the seme because I know at the end of the day, they’re still gonna end up with the seme and not even care about being raped. That’s as much as I can tolerate. Rape is a terrible thing to experience but most times can’t be avoided in yaoi stories so I try to be a bit tolerant when I can, but not in the case where every chapter, you see a rape scene; especially with random dudes. Urgh.

I don’t even understand what some people here are on about and why they keep twisting what I’m saying
I called someone out on the fact that they said reading the part where the ten year old raped Rix given it’s a dream awakened a “rape kink” in them and people said it’s okay and I’m like nope it’s not okay you can’t read stuff like this and be a roused by it
But unfortunately a bunch of idiots think I’m shaming people and I’m like......wtf is this world coming to so you can’t point out someone’s wrong doings and saying when something they do is not okay
Woahhh
But yeah like you say I won’t mind them

No one said "yay rape is cool!!" No one is actually sayin' "damn I really wish someone would violently violate me against my consent!!"

What annoys me most as a CSA and rape survivor is when people automatically assume somethin' is wrong with people who like to enjoy or explore darker themes in fictional or consensual settings. I went through 8 years of therapy and counseling through my childhood and teenage years and one of the biggest things that was talked about was the fact that due to what happened to me when I was a child I was left with a few darker fantasies than most. We talked it out for years 'cause I actually self-harmed 'cause I thought I was disgusting for whatever thoughts were goin' through my head. I was even invalidated by some of my friends that I thought I could trust and later on cut ties with 'cause of it all. When I was told that the thoughts or kinks that I had were actually commonly practiced in safe spaces and that exploring these kinks through fiction (writing/art) was a healthy and safe way to indulge myself it was only a matter of months before I had my headspace back on track.

Just 'cause I'm not standin' on the rooftops shouting "RAPE IS BAD!! RAPE OUTSIDE OF A FICTIONAL SETTING IS NO GOOD!!" doesn't mean I advocate or actually want sexual assault or actual rape to happen to people in real life. I'm also worn out from seein' people sob and send death threats over fictional character rights moreso than they do for real life victims. The number of times I've been told to die and kill myself and other unsavory things just 'cause I was like "yo chill it's literally just a cartoon" despite the years of abuse I suffered as a fuckin' 5 year old is honestly enough to make me want to vomit.

Stop sayin' people are "screwed up" in the head just 'cause they don't take fictional abuse seriously or find certain darker themes to be hot or kinky. Chances are they are probably survivors themselves and it's not right to invalidate them if they aren't actually harmin' anyone in real life.

Not like you'll fuckin' read this since you seem to be pretty close-minded lol

I don’t see anything wrong with your opinion. People have a rape kink, it’s nothing new, but you can’t look at a ten-year-old raping an unwilling person and suddenly develop a rape link. That just makes you sick.
Wei Wuxian had a rape kink but only when it had to do with Lan Zhan; it’s different when it has to do with someone else cos I bet his rape kink won’t kick in then. People should learn to know what to just keep in their heads and never voice out. We know it’s fiction but our imaginations should have a limit sometimes.

Normally, I don't bother reading epistles when they’re a reply to my comment cos I consider it a waste of my time since I would most likely give them a standoffish response and call it a day, but I took my time to read yours because for one, I sympathize with your situation and I don't know if you would like to hear me, but I’m sorry for you what you went through in the past.
However, we are both saying different things. If you have a rape kink, I can’t judge you for that. There are people with a lot of fetishes but seeing someone being raped by someone that isn’t even their love interest, whether fiction or not and you say it triggered a rape kink in you, I think you're sick for that.
I can’t stand anything that has to do with rape but I have learned to tolerate it in mangas because most times, it is inevitable between the uke and seme, but I would not cheer it on, try to defend it, or call for more partners to rape the uke like most of these readers are doing.
Imagine watching a video of someone raping a dog and you say it triggered a rape kink in you? How does that make any sense, knowing very well that an animal can't give consent to such? Some things, it’s better to just leave them in your imagination, there’s no need to voice it out.
Contrary to what you think, even in a manga, there should be a limit to what you applaud. I can tolerate and stomach reading about rape in a manga, but I wouldn't applaud or cheer it on. Take this manga, for example, Rix has been assaulted numerous times by strangers and now raped in his dream by some bastard and someone is cheering it on, saying it awoke a rape kink in them? C’mon! I dropped this manga cos of the unnecessary rape and assault scenes that have nothing to do with the main plot of the story and also because of the sick comments I keep reading about it. Even on the author’s social media page, people have been telling her how much they enjoyed the rape scenes, especially the one with the incubus, so of course, it triggers her to keep adding more and I can't fathom it.
You went through stuff in the past and now you have some dark sexual desires; which I would be a fool to judge you for, but would you be willing to explore those dark-themed sexual desires with a partner against your will? I'm guessing the answer is no. Even with a rape kink, just like BDSM, consent is key; because you would give consent to your partner to explore that kink with you, and I'm sure you would agree with that.
So if someone says they get turned on by something that is being done against another person's will, then I believe they are sick because they are the same people who would blame a rape victim for being raped, saying they asked for it. Make of that what you will and I don’t think I have anything more to say on this issue.
Once again, I am sorry for what you went through and I hope you’re in a much better place now, both mentally, physically, and emotionally. Take care.

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