Hahaha deep down in my heart I want this to be a yaoi.... (=ă»Ïă»=)
I fucking hate people like you. STOP FETISHSIZING GAY MEN AND GAY RELATIONSHIPS! I DESPISE PEOPLE LIKE YOU! YOU ARE WATCHED THE TYPE OF PERSON WHO WATCHED YAOI HENTAI AND WISHES THEY WERE A GUY SO THEY COULD HAVE THE âYAOI EXPERIENCEâ I FUCKING HATE FUJOSHIâS GO BACK TO READING FUCKING YAOI IF YOU WANT THIS TO BE YAOI SO BAD. THERE IS BARELY ANY HETERO STUFF ON THIS DAMNED WEBSITE AND YOU HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY THIS?! YOU DISGUST ME. AS SOMEONE APART OF THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY SEEING COMMENTS LIKE THESE ON MANWHA I READ REALLY INFURIATES ME! SERIOSULY!! THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU!!
STOP TRYING TO MAKE EVERYTHING GAY. THAT IS NOT SUPPORTING LGBTQ PEOPLE, IT FETISHIZING THEM! YOU ARE DISGUSTING AND I HOPE YOU ROT SOMEWHERE!
Yaoi is NOT good representation, it FETISHIZES GAY RELATIONSHIPS. And most BL/Yaoi
And... What are you doing in a (mostly) Yaoi scan site if you hate it so much ?
Come on, you can't shout that HERE. There's like 70% Yaoi update.
And calm down, maybe you had bad moments with stupid person who happened to like Yaoi, but it doesn't mean that all of us are the stupid narrowminded people that you describe, and that doesn't mean you have the right to insult people you don't know. Especially if they did nothing wrong.
However you can say that you do not agree. That everybody can understand and respect.
I can be on this site if I fucking want to. And I only hate the yaoi/bL that sexualize being gay and gay relationships... and there is plenty of that. There is only a few decent yaoi stories on this site.
And note how I said âfuck you, and fujoshi fans like youâ? I meant fujoshi fans who like to make everything gay, (this person said they wished this was a yaoi) the fujoshi fans who canât help but ship any guys they see together, etc. If you read my comment, you shouldnât feel offended. And if you feel offended, youâre part of the problem.
Your reaction wasnât justified. They simply said wouldnât it be nice for it to be a yaoi. Everyone has a preference, itâs not wrong to like something and wish it came true. You donât even know this person, you donât know if itâs a dude part of the lgbt+ community just saying it would be nice. You are overreacting like an asshole, you really donât need to start typing in all caps about how much you hate fujoshiâs for single comment that meant no harm. Are you okay? I understand you are tired of people fetishizing the lgbt+ community but this reaction is not the way to make people understand why itâs wrong.
Anyways, I re-read my reaction and realized whatâs wrong with it however I stand by what I said. This person is probably the type of person to ship all anime boys they see together, regardless if they are straight or not, they are also the type of person to try and make everything gay, they are also probably the type of person who watches yaoi and wishes that they could be the guy in that position.
If you do any of the things I listed above, you need to re-evaluate yourself. I say that in the MEANEST way possible.
Yaoi does not represent gay relationships accurately at all. Same goes for Yuri. That genre disgusts me as well. There are very few manwha/manhua/webtoon that accurately represent lgbt relationships.
Stop fetishizing the idea of being gay and gay relationships. Just stop. And donât make stupid comments like this one saying âI wiSh thIs wAs yAOiâ because it is extremely disrespectful. If someone made the comment âI wish this was straightâ under a bl manwha/manhua/webtoon they would get called homophobic, and downvoted to oblivion. So, no, this is not a harmless comment. Itâs rather offensive and it is disgusting as well.
There is no fucking point in reading a straight manwha/manhua/webtoon if youâre going to say I WISH THIS WAS YAOI. That is stupid. And as another commenter said 70% of the content that is on this site is yaoi That means you can go ahead and fucking read that instead instead of writing such a meaningless comment.
The only reason people would get mad at you for saying you wish it was straight would be because there are literally straight couples everywhere. I only read yaoi or bl just to be able to see some representation, but I usually go to BL because yaoi is usually only smut. I get you hate it but there are literally straight couples everywhere and we have to look for websites like this to even be able to see anything gay or LGBTQ+. So could you please chill a bit and see it from our point of view?
The only reason people would get mad at you for saying you wish it was straight would be because there are literally straight couples everywhere. I only read yaoi or bl just to be able to see some representation, but I usually go to BL because yaoi is usually only smut. I get you hate it but there are literally straight couples everywhere and we have to look for websites like this to even be able to see anything gay or LGBTQ+. So could you please chill a bit and see it from our point of view?
If it's not doing any harm then why can't she/he ship some guys. They aren't even real. And hentai also doesn't show how relationships work. Yaoi is mostly smut, so if you want something lighter go read shounen ai.
I get your point but it doesn't mean you can just say FU*K to strangers all the time. You don't know them so don't judge. Pleeeease
I am referring to this site, not irl. There is a lot of bl and yaoi on this site. More than hetero stuff.
I am literally apart of the LGBT community, and I understand where youâre coming from, my comment was directed towards all the yaoi and bl that to fetishize gay people and relationships. And all the people who do that too. Itâs disgusting.
Iâve been saying all along thatâs what my comment is directed towards.
I donât like fujoshiâs because some fujoshiâs (is not most.), from what Iâve seen... like to take characters from normal anime, make them gay, and then make fan art of the characters having sex, or make fanfics.
How I imagine the mind of a TOXIC (note I said TOXIC) fujoshi: Youâre gay, youâre gay, everybodyâs gay! You have a female love interest in your anime but now youâre gay and wanna fuck your best friend! (Tokyo Ghoul) Youâre ten and donât even know what a penis does but youâre gay now! (HunterxHunter)
.. The comments I see some fujoshi make... Bother me. Like how some wish they were guys, how they wish they could do those things! How they would be gay if they were a guy!
There was a time where Yuri On Ice fans started harassing straight figure skaters who had wives and then edited Yuzuru Hanyuâs Wikipedia page to âYuuri Katsukiâ
Thereâs a low level of respect that Fujoshiâs show both anime characters and real people.
And I saw a Midioriya and Almight ship, as well as a Kirishima x Endeavor... The age differences.... THE AGE DIFFERENCES. Of course, the age differences wasnât the only factor of my disgust. Just the fact they wanted to make the characters gay for their own satisfaction.
While I understand that you feel strongly about this matter, aggressively stating your point can be so harmful. Telling someone to die, is very impactful.
Also, some of the "I wish it was a yaoi" comments I come across are on stories that don't portray a sexually saturated and very cringy(imo) view of romance. Maybe that's just what they meant: I wish we had more non-cringy bl. Ask before burning them at the stakes. And I think it is better to educate rather than assault them for having the opinion they have. Think of it that way: What if the one behind the screen was a very emotionally unstable person, what could this "I HOPE YOU ROT SOMEWHERE!" do to them. What would you feel if it was aimed at you?
I think screaming, especially on a site where you literally have all the space and time to "speak" is not very helpful. To the one, you're addressing as much as yourself.
That said, I wish you all well.
Well, you certaintly did get alot of hate for that. While you may think your reaction is justified, others don't, because your trying to hurt someone for their preference. I'm sorry, but if your part of the LGBTQ community, do you like it when people call you disgusting for your sexual preference? I understand that alot of the time in heterosexual relationship mangas on this site there's almost always a comment about wanting a yaoi/Yuri version, but why does that give you the right to beat someone down and shame them for what they like or believe in. If we're gonna play that game, then you should also think it's justified for someone to hate and shame you for being part of the LGBTQ community right?
Would you find it justified for someone to call you a TOXIC LESBIAN/GAY/BI/TRANS/QUEER?
You also seem to be "justified" because you've seen people take their "yaoi fetishes" to extreme and disgusting levels. So if I've seen people take their "LGBTQ community" preferences to disgusting levels, that would justify me bashing you and calling you disgusting and shamefully for what I've witnessed other LGBTQ people do, right?
If you happen to think of a valid argument against what I just said then feel free to reply so I can truly understand exactly how justified you and your actions are.
I hope you have a pleasant day (*^âœ^*)
Well, I'm doing almost all you are listing above (ïżŁâïżŁ)
- I ship a lot manga/anime boys (not all, mind you) and some girls together because some authors are putting hints or inuendo to show that it's possible, and because I find a lot of manga girls damn stupid, not interesting, just there to put a woman and sexiness. I very much despite that and really think that sometime if the girl was not interested in boys and the boys not interested in her she would gain a new, better purpose.
- Define "make everything gay" ? I protest, bisexual, at least say "make everything bisexual". Because I'm not putting everyone in a homosexual relationship, mostly main characters ïŒïżŁăžïżŁïŒ... Okay that's poor, I know.
- Well, I did wish some time that I was a man. Personal reasons, I won't back on that.
But I'm not going to reconsider even if you said that in the MEANEST way possible because I don't think I'm wrong to indulge in my fantasies in a world of fantasy. I'm not harming anyone.
I very much know that the represented gay relationships are not accurate. I think most of grown out persons would find out about that. That's something you MUST know when read Yaoi.
About the "There is no fucking point in reading a straight manwha/manhua/webtoon if youâre going to say I WISH THIS WAS YAOI" --> the story ? Don't you read because the story is good ? Like, relationships in second ? MHA for exemple, would it change the story if there was one homosexual couple in it ? I think not. The story is not woven in romance, and thinking about it, there is no couple yet (not in the anime anyway, don't spoil me please), so hetero or homo, everything is fantasy for know.
I agree that "i wish it was Yaoi" is not a good comment, "I wish this couple was cannon" is better because it does not implie that the whole story has to turn to romance and Yaoi.
Their PREFERENCE?! A FETISH is NOT A PREFERENCE they arenât nearly close to being the same thing. would like to say that the person who made the comment admitted to fetishizing gay men and gay relationships. So I guess my speculations of the person were correct, because they admitted to it. They said âso??itâs my fetish stupid not yoursâ
They admitted to being one of the fujoshiâs who fetishize GAY MEN AND GAY RELATIONSHIPS. If you do not think that is disgusting I donât know what to say to you!
I donât even recall writing the âI hope you rot somewhereâ statement which shows I was too pissed to type rationally. However, this person meant that they wanted this to be yaoi for their fetish. They admitted that they had a fetishizing of gay men and gay relationships. They said âSo? This is my fetish stupid not yoursâ and they tried to accuse of having a fetish (which I do not. Not every person has a fetish. Even if I did, it wouldnât be something as disgusting as throwing sexuality around as if it is a toy.)
I do agree with you, I could have educated the person on why it was wrong instead of attacking them. I shouldâve calmed myself down before typing. I do apologize for my immaturity. Now that I have found out what I said about this person was right I am truly disgusted.
Yes, there is nothing wrong with indulging in your fantasies as long as you are not imposing them on others. I think that is what some straight people mean when they say âstop pushing your gay agenda on usâ (some people who are LGBT think itâs okay to shame someone for being in straight?? Which is fucking stupid. Just as you donât have control over being gay/lesbian/bisexual/Pan etc. they donât have control over being straight.) As long as you are not the type to be like SUPPORT MY SHIP! SUPPORT THIS SHIP! OH THIS CHARACTER SHOULD BE GAY! THESE CHARACTERS SHOULD BE GAY TOGETHER.
Haikyuu fujoshiâs on Twitter... Disgust me. Apparently two characters they ship are cousins... Yet they donât care. They will still ship it. Even though itâs incest. This shows that they want to ship the characters just to make it gay. Which makes my blood boil. Sexuality is not a toy to play around with! It enrages me seeing Haikyuu fujoshiâs!
This is how I imagine the toxic fujoshiâs think;
Pure friendship? (No hints the characters are attracted to each other in any way, shape, or form.) = ship!
Two guys that hate each other? (Abusive relationships) = ship!
Love triangle? = ship the two guys even though they are both only attracted to the female lead!
Two guys with little to no interaction? = ship!
The ships bakudeku... or tododeku I will never understand it. It really disgusts me... ESPECIALLY bakudeku (Bakugou and Midoriya have an UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. WHAT GOES THROUGH PEOPLEâS MINDS WHEN THEY SHIP THE TWO TOGETHER?! THERE ARE NO GOOD REASONS. A shitty reason some will try and come up with is probably âoH Midoriya is nice to Bakugou omg omg so cute!!! Omg Bakugou wasnât mean to Midoriya?! SHIPPP!!! x3 x3)
Midoriya obviously likes Ochako, it is VERY OBVIOUS. He shows no interest in men. It is very very VERY obvious he only likes Ochako in that way.
â - I ship a lot manga/anime boys (not all, mind you) and some girls together because some authors are putting hints or inuendo to show that it's possible,â That is COMPLETELY and I mean COMPLETELY fine. I believe that if the author hints itâs possible it is completely okay to ship them! But shipping them just because you want them to be gay/lesbian is the tipping point for me!
You seem like a decent person. I just hope you donât turn into the fujoshiâs I am talking about.
Wrong order, I was a bit like that and then I grew up and understood mainly what is the meaning of "good relationship", "toxic relationship", "goddam rape", "erotised rape (but that's rape peoples)".
There are a lot of young peoples there, or people that do not have enough experience to tell what is plain wrong, what is acceptable, and what is good.
Strong opinion doesn't make one rethink there way, they make people clam up. What you need is discussion. It will also permit you to understand peoples feelings and maybe yours better and find middle ground where you're not at each others throat.
So maybe you could also recomend good BL/Yaoi/Shonen Ai with a sane relationship that could serve as an exemple?
PS : Hum ! I was Bakugo/Midoriya before, because I thought it would permit Bakugo to change and become a little more sane, but hey now I know better and think Bakugo/Kirishima is good because Bakugo respect him a lot, Kirishima respect him a lot and know how to handle him and let's be clear (I'm not backing of on this one!) Bakugo show 0,00000 interest in women, and if the author is gonna couple him, then it will someone we know in the group, and nobody fit him, or it would'nt be a healthy relationship OR the woman character will again be ruined to be "missy good wife" and I don't want that ! So he would be alone, and I don't want that either because he is intelligent and kind deep down and is just a big tsundere with a big need of a psychotherapist AND SO ! Is it not better to pray they will stick together ? (with psychotherapy pretty please, someonesavethiskid).
That, is probably what you will found in an experimented Fujoshi's mind. Again I repeat, I really think that most people are grewing up from what you describe, and not falling into it. So let's be more like helping raising than stomping on it please ?
Youâre right about Bakugou showing little to no interest in women however he also has shown little to no interest in men. If you want to go that far you might as well label him asexual.
I wouldnât ship him with Kirishima just because he is friends with him. I ship them as friends but thatâs as far as itâll get. I wish that the author would just put canon sexualities for the characters, I make a point not to ship characters together unless they actually have a chance.
Bakugou has never showed any signs of romantic interest towards Kirishima, if he did I would ship him with Kirishima but he doesnât. Yeah, Kirishima could probably help Bakugou out however it would be through a friendship.
I think bromance would be a much better term for their relationship, bromance and shipping them as a bromance is much better than shipping them like âthatâ
I donât think I really hate fujoshiâs. Maybe some of them arenât bad. It is just their logic that really messes me up. I believe characters should be shipped if they have a genuine chance together. Not just because you want them to be gay... But the reason why I got to enraged in the first place and went on a tangent is because of the commenter. The commenter admitted to having a fetish for gay men and gay relationships.
Also for recommendations I canât think of any thing. I have yet to come across a bl/shounen ai/yaoi that isnât smut carrying the story. I recently started reading the shounen ai window to window but it really isnât that... Good. Most of it has been smut... I guess that is most of the reason why fujoshiâs like the genre because of smut. Both of the mlâs arenât being honest with each other... I canât even remember their names. Oneâs mother is a homophobe, the other one is insecure even though theyâve already gone and have sex. They havenât really loved forward to solve the problems... They are just having sex...
So far what Iâm getting from bl is that they think gay men have sex all the time... Specifically anal. Which is kind of a stereotype... Gay men can't have anal sex all the time without thinking, and "top" or "bottom" is not really a thing in gay relationships nor does it say something about your personality or gender role in a relationship.
Anywho. Iâm gonna mute the conversation now.
Points I wanted to make is that fujoshiâs should never fetishize gay men and gay relationships... That is just... Disgusting. Shouldnât fetishize the idea of being a gay man... Or the idea of being in a gay relationship... Especially if you think gay men fuck like rabbits. That is incredibly ignorant.
Shipping characters blindly just because you want them to be gay is not a good thing to do. You shouldnât try and make a character gay just because you like the idea of it.... Bakugou and Kirishima have a good bromance. Bakugou doesnât like Kirishima romantically, Kirishima doesnât like Bakugou romantically. That is fact. They are friends. Canât really call them platonic... Cause theyâre not... They just respect each other and donât mind hanging out with each other. Thatâs that.
Umm... What else... I think thatâs it. Bye.
The spoiler breaks my heart but I'll still read this.. Ml is the king.. So its natural for the king to have many wives.. â„ïčâ„... I hope they change this but I guess not... When that scene comes.. I think my heart won't be able to take that.. But its going well now so I should be happy.. âź(ïżŁâœïżŁ)â
Lol My PeEpEe HuRtS he is so cute (â§ââŠ)