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But he just said that he has feeling for Hwi. So eveb though they are not in a relationship, its still a cheating

hwi asked param on a date and confessed his feelings and param accepted the date...and then went to go sleep with mr han... you wouldnt be hurt? also, i get it param is an adult and can do what he wants but this will have negative effects on hwi and params relationship ...this whole story weve been winded up to seeing param and hwis relationship and now weve hit a major shift it makes sense for people to be upset

He's not cheating just because he has feelings for Hwi... They're not even together.

He only asked him on a date, they never actually confirmed a relationship, nor are they dating. He's still single, he can experiment. It's only a problem if he did this without true feelings for Hwi, or they were in a relationship.

He only liked him because he was kind to him at first... You can't choose the person you have feelings for.

So lets say I love someone but I had sex with another person. Isnt it cheating wit emotional. U love him, you are connected with him, but do u think you can do everything because you are not in a relationship. Its a bullshit.

I would feel ashamed if i said I have feeling for someone but then had sex with another person

Lmao I feel bad for the people you “date” in the future. Agreeing to go on a date with somebody and/or having sex with them doesn’t mean you owe them anything. Somebody telling you they like you also doesn’t mean you’re obligated to return their feelings or commit to them. That’s a personal decision so trying to say Param owes Hwi to be loyal just because Hwi said he likes him and asked him on a date completely takes away Param’s free will. It isn’t cheating unless both parties have agreed to be in an exclusive relationship and one steps outside that dishonestly. Your welcome for this life lesson

Actually Im really sad for people you are gonna date. While you have feeling for them, you can have sex with another man and that wont make u uncomfortable.btw I didt say Hwi owes him.

Lol if we’re not in a committed relationship and they’re not fine with it they don’t have to stick around

It's not love. It's only feelings that Param developing recently. There's no deep connection yet.

Well that's just you. Param also had feelings for Mr Han, or at least he believed he did.

Having feelings isn't a commitment to another person. Param thought he liked Mr Han, so having sex with the person he likes wouldn't have made him uncomfortable.

Thank you, it's a relief to know people still have common sense.

Fr fr. He liked Han in the first place, so by that person’s reasoning, didn’t he “cheat” on Han when he started fucking Hwi?

Thank you

I'm unaware if this will turn into a relationship. It's been chapters or r*pe on and on, and I don't know whether to expect redemption. It's a shitty type of ending, r*pe, r*pe, then a relationship.

Me too

I think the senior likes the other female senior but not too sure. Doesn’t seem like a plot line where a second male interest will come into play. It’s kind of like Here U Are ?? (My opinion on the vibes it gives off)

I think it’s gonna be less like a triangle but more like little swan admiring the senior and the boxer dude so gonna herb jealous

I'm not sure, but I'm assuming based on the jealousy in last chapter, and the usual clichés in BL. You could be right though.

Actually, I agree with this more.

Before I'm attacked, I'm not claiming that the MC is completely innocent. I do think he's insensitive at times, but I don't exactly blame him for it either.

I don't actually hate the MC for not being able accept things either. Maybe I just dislike the whole "a straight person forced into a gay relationship or they die" narrative. And that dislike is really showing when the MC is so aggressive at the ML when he can't control his body (you know the scenes when ML gets involuntary erection and the MC points it out, asking inappropriate questions and then calling him a pervert when he gets an answer).

Overall I see no chemistry between the two. I can see the ML genuinely liking the MC and respecting the boundaries (somewhat), but the MC seems so disgusted by everything, it's annoying the hell out of me that they are supposed to be a couple.

I'm kinda disappointed, cuz I really like the art and the plot seems interesting enough, but the characters have no chemistry.

I agree. I always hated these type of tropes, but I read this because I like this type of plot. It's not even someone discovering they're not straight, it's just 'I don't like men, but I like you'.

Exactly. It doesn't help that I've actually read something similar where the plot is done better. The style is different and the relationship is very mild (as in it's a shounen ai instead of yaoi), but the plot is done so much better. The updates on it are slow but if you wanna give it a read it's here http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/saiyaku_wa_boku_o_suki_sugiru/

Thank you a lot! I've been wanting to read plots the same of this sort.

Don't blame Param because he's being manipulated. Manipulation is not something he can control.

i agree with you :)

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Plottwist Param will feel like shit later about what he is about to do in next ch.
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Uhmm, Hwi had been telling Param how he felt tho, Param knew exactly how Hwi feels for him and was even starting to want Hwi getting horny solely because of him. Also, Param said so himself that he likes someone else (other than Han) and HE KNEW himself that what he and Han did was wrong, hence why he got soooo guilty when he went on the date with Hwi and their date got ruined.

He may have not done it on purpose, but he did hurt Hwi. He may not be the only one to blame, but he played a part also (a big part). So he really isn’t innocent.

Also, he could’ve just stopped but didn’t. Let’s face it, Param wasn’t thinking with his head..he used his other head and that was his biggest mistake. And now he’s sooo regretting what he did because *SPOILER*








He wants Hwi, but Hwi never contacted him again after telling Param that they shouldn’t mert ever again.

Do you have the link for the raws?

I read it @ Lezhin korea

Not exactly. I read through, he always brushed them off as jokes. Param said he liked someone else. He's been hurt by Mr Han a lot, so he rejects him. He's not in a relationship with Hwi. He isn't guilty if he accepts someone else.

Did you not read? He couldn't just stop. He was being manipulated, he didn't want this. He only realises it afterwards.

Thanks for being the only one to reply to me with a working brain, I'm starting to think people are insane. :)

So you’re saying just because I don’t agree with you I’m stupid? Or my brain isn’t working?

Yes he was manipulated, but we shouldn’t deny the fact that he used his “dicc” to think. He literally said “whatever” and let his horny-ness lead him to make a mistake. It takes two to tango, he gave consent, he wasn’t forced. He knew what he was doing was wrong.

It's not meant literally. (The brain part at least) But yes, if you're blaming someone for being manipulated, it's quite stupid.

Or flat out saying I’m insane?

He gave in, but that's not proper consent. He had to be told that he likes Mr Han to actually go through with it. If you're using someone's feelings against them to make them give in, that's taking advantage of them. What he was doing wasn't wrong anyways. He isn't in a relationship with Hwi. He and Hwi are only sex friends.

It's a figure of speech. Of course you're not literally insane. It's not hard to figure out.

Or I’m just saying that Param isn’t entirely innocent

So what are you trying to say about the people who don’t share the same opinions with you? What was your point on saying “the only one ti reply to me with a working brain” what did you really mean about it if not that? Please enlighten me, like I’m seriously asking, not trying to fight or anything.

Again, if what he did wasn’t wrong...then why does he feel bad? Why did he feel guilty when he saw Hwi during their date? Why did he cry and regret doing it with Han? Days after Hwi told him to never see each other again?

'He could've stopped but didn't' - Well here's the thing, he was being manipulated. Even so, if he wasn't being manipulated, and just agreed, I would still see his as innocent. He isn't in a relationship with Hwi. Mr Han is most likely hurt because Param and Hwi had sex too.

param literally said "whatever"

That's not yes. He only gave in because Mr Han kept pushing him, and he has feelings for him. He rejected him multiple times.

if someone is not interested to have sex with someone they will never give in to them. param is at fault as well. mr han is jerk from the beginning, but after knowing mr han's true nature param still gave him consent. that push wasn't enough though. if you read the raw you can see when mr han came to ask him something param literally pushed him away. that kind of push was needed here. they were in public param had lots of time to escape from the situation but he didn't

You shouldn't blame the victim in these types of situations. It's not his fualt that he can't push away the person he likes. It's called manipulation, his actions are being controlled.

I don't think he is a victim here. he totally wanted it. if he didn't he totally said no.

He did say no. He only gave in because he was reminded that he has feelings for Mr Han. Mr Han doesn't know boundaries, don't blame Param because he was manipulated.