
am i the only one who really doesn’t like jiwoon making this decision for suha? it just rubs me the wrong way like i know he wants to protect him but this is too much

Idk maybe he has his reasons, I mean we already saw how crazy the red head can get. The president loves red head dude and would be more prone to listening to him. So maybe red head dude will try to talk crap about Suha and make him look bad. From what I understand is that Suha already tried to protect Jiwoon and we all saw how that worked out. So now it's Jiwoon's turn to protect Suha (like you said) because he doesn't want him to get even more hurt. Maybe this is his weird way of trying to make up for what he did to Suha. Idk this is just my theory/perspective. I mean I also thought it was a bit overboard how he was like you won't be leaving the house anymore, I was like ehhh that's a bit creepy. But who knows, I guess we will see how things play out in the next season.

He may be possessive right now but I feel like it’s a good idea to “hide your kids hide your wife” Suha around menstruation head. But maybe at least video chat the president, explain what happened the night before and tell her that you’re pressing charges against him (red head and that’s my ideal situation which will never happen because yaoi) and see what happens.

all the slut shaming and people dropping the series over param having sex with mr han is fucking insane. y’all act like he’s cheating when in fact he’s not dating hwi. we know param has feelings for hwi and it will hurt their relationship at some point but we also can’t forget that he’s still not fully over mr han so can you really blame him for getting carried away when having his unrequited feelings reciprocated after so long? y’all act like him hooking up with him is the most disgusting and shameful thing he could’ve done like goddamn, let him be horny in peace?? people who read the raws said that he regrets it afterwards so at least he’s aware of his mistake and we know he’ll eventually deal with the consequences for it.

Just stop with it and think of others opinion too. Let's just ignore the fact that he was fucking playing with Hwi's feelings all the series and give him hope for nothing and talk about the fact that he went in a date with Hwi just after a hours of him having sex with Han, then ignore him all the date so Hwi starts to blame himself thinking he did something wrong and get hurt at the end just by the ignoring shit saying he is sorry for forcing him and they shouldn't meet again, how do you think he would feel after knowing about what Param did ? Does it looks right to you ? If that's so we don't see people's feelings as a joke so respect our opinion.

what’s up with this guilt-tripping? i never said what param did was right. i even mentioned that param regretted what he did and that he’d suffer the consequences because of the effect that would have to their relationship. my point was that i think it’s fucking gross to hate param for “being a slut/whore” bc that’s just straight up slutshaming and that it’s a bit extreme to accuse him of cheating when he’s not dating hwi and is not exclusive to him. how is considering param’s feelings on the whole situation and trying to give some insight on his actions seeing people’s feelings as a joke? i never said i don’t care about hwi’s feelings and i don’t blame him for feeling hurt, i was merely trying to explain my opinion on the situation from param’s side of things.

am i the only one who sees andy’s character as heavily coded for having some serious internalized homophobia going on? i get that it doesn’t excuse him being an asshole but jesus fuck, dude really got sexually harassed and y’all acting like we shouldn’t care because he was an asshole. dude clearly has some deep issues and did not deserve the shit he got. he went through a whole ass identity crisis and was clearly very upset with what happened ;((
now before i get flamed for this i want to preface this by saying that i absolutely loved this manga. however, i see so many people complaining about others being upset at her losing weight in the end and i have to say i am one of them and here’s my reasoning as to why. yes, her boyfriend loved her before she lost weight and no, he didn’t ask her to lose weight for him. yes, she chose out of her own will to lose weight and become healthier.
however, i think the issue you guys don’t get with this is the message this sends, which is literally one voiced by shizuka herself and i think y’all just glossed over this line. she says she wanted to make herself more lovable compared to the person she was when she met akira and when he said he liked her. she’s implying she’ll be more lovable if she loses weight and that’s the fucking problem. i don’t think we can deny his love for her despite her figure or deny that she lost weight because she wanted to but i think we can’t just pretend she just lost weight because she wanted to lose weight, she literally says she wants to be more lovable for him and as someone who’s plus size it really fucking sucks that we rarely have series where the fat girl is in a happy relationship and happy with herself without ending up losing weight. something else i’d like to add is that there’s always the assumption that fat means unhealthy when that isn’t always the case? there’s skinny people who are very unhealthy and can eat just as much or just as unhealthy as a fat person but because they’re skinny they’re considered healthy when they’re not. there’s also fat people who have relatively healthy lifestyles but are still fat so personally i think it’s bullshit when people assume someone’s unhealthy just because they’re fat or when they tell people to lose weight all unset the guise of “caring for their health” when quite frankly they don’t know anything and it’s none of their business.
anyways, long rant aside, this was a very sweet and fun read! i absolutely adored the characters and the story but i find it very sad and frustrating that we can’t have fat characters find love and stay the way they are bc a lot of the time it really pushes the message that you won’t be loved it you’re fat, or in this case that you’ll be more lovable if you lose weight.
Honestly, I resonated with her, not a loveable per se but more confident. I was bullied and I used eating as a way to cope, and my self-esteem took a nose dive. Which adds to my mental health that already sucks. So, I'm trying to get healthy for myself and my family.