I read yaoi and I have gay friends. We actually became friends because I talked to them about the yaoi that I read and thats when he came out to me as gay. I told him that I'd apologize if I made him uncomfortable talking about yaoi but he said that he actually felt valid and felt comfortable around me because Im open about gay relationships. I rea...... reply
I wouldn't say that it's the main problem. It more about the maturity of the person and their choices and how they chose to communicate with people reply