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I’m not sure if I really just argued with my friend or not but I was explaining some of arcane plot to my friend who didn’t understand and then my other friend started spamming pictures of viktor, I asked her to stop, she didn’t, I asked my friend to kick her for five minutes, she did, and within those five minutes she thanos snapped our mudae characters twice (mudae is a character collection game on discord and we’ve been at that server for a few years now [we’ve been friends for like more than a decade]). She then started getting upset in another chat (other chat was on instagram, she moved to discord [which has some other friends on there]) and said she was upset that I called myself the main character, but all I said was that I relate to powder before she becomes jinx because I have a bad habit of hitting my head with my hands like she does hitting it against walls and like scratching my skin off and it was kind of comforting to not see someone cry without the reactions I deem normal when I cry. I didn’t mean to seem egotistical by calling myself powder but my friend said I was Maddie (she hasn’t watched the full thing) and I didn’t want to be Maddie. She was also saying that the show was mid and that because I talk about it so much about it that I have contaminated how good it is with my conspiracies and all the info I get from tiktok (I don’t have tiktok) but the thing is I tend to obsess about things I like but this is nothing new and within 2 months-4 years I get over it mostly (except all for the game god I am never getting over that my love of that will inevitably follow me to my death)

I’m mostly annoyed at the mudae characters and I was upset so I said I’m leaving and then I left but I’m just confused and am unsure of how to process this. I think this was an argument but I’m not sure I don’t know if she is upset or not and I don’t really know what she is upset at or for

What do you do when you argue with your friends or what would you do in this situation? I’m just kinda confused I don’t really argue with my friends (is this an argument ??)

Okay these questions have been bothering me so can some of y’all answer them pretty please they’ve been my shower questions that I think about for entirely too long. You can choose one or all I don’t care I’m just curious

Which finger do you put your car blinker on?

Cabbage or spinach? both you have to eat raw

Favorite fictional character of any media?

Which way does the toilet paper rolls go?

Is barbecue or ketchup better?

Do you floss?

Do you think any unmoral action is forgivable given a circumstance?

When was the last time you were sunburnt to the point it peeled?

Is a bowl of yoghurt with different fruits and such a salad?

Do you put peanut butter in yoghurt?

If you have really short hair should you use conditioner?

Okay that’s all I think thank you

So I need good romance recs specifically bl of gl cause I’m sorry but sl never hits on this site (I fuck it up on Webtoon though)

I just feel like I’ve read so much of this site (probably a bad thing but shhhh) so any like low-key stories that are good I got open arms

If you don’t have any recs you can respond to this question: what have you eaten today?

I had two blueberry and chocolate chip pancakes with syrup, grilled cheese (plant based cause lactose intolerant) and a caprisun, ate a banana as a snack, then salad with just lettuce, chicken, croutons and some pesto, had a cookie for dessert. I didn’t eat so healthy today but I do not care that’s a problem for future me

All in the title give me one or a few songs you love and are classics and then give me a current favourite that you just discovered

Disclaimer that this might not make sense cause I’m kinda just ranting so yeah

So I’ve been trying to plan a group birthday for me and two of my other friends (I’m April but we were studying for finals and the other two are June but we all were busy) and in general most of my friends are being sooo annoying god. I have a friend group of around 5-8 depending on who you include, but the number would be 5, excluding me for it. All my friends were pretty busy because they work on the weekends and that’s chill, but I asked them for their schedules constantly and they wouldn’t reply, just send pictures of memes and stuff. Then I would ask my friends what worked best for them and it was no weekdays so I was like cool, but they wouldn’t tell me what weekends worked, so I went through each weekend and made about 3 different plans with maybe 5 alternatives for each weekend cause I prefer it to happen in July (I do plan things normally and they do often do this but before they weren’t as busy so it was easy to say yeah it’s this and being this so we can do this and they’ll be like cool), and I finally reached that we could have a sleepover on Saturday after 5-7 that went into Sunday and those who went to church or had work could leave early if they needed. It hardly conflicted with anyone and I didn’t mind the plan, it was super annoying because no one was replying or giving me any info for it.

Well today two od my friends contacted me, acting like I didn’t outline the plan for them. They were like “let’s do this because why not” and I had to say “we can’t because, again, for the third time, we do not have this”, so I was a little annoyed at the time. Then my other friend hit me up and literally fucking asked “there’s a party ?” And I asked her if she was being serious and then said I wasn’t talking to her for the time being and I know it’s childish but I was just so fucking pissed because I went over this multiple times with you and others in a group chat that you are capable of reading and I was just so so annoyed. Then she said I can’t because for some reason it now it conflicts with her schedule but she was never clear with her schedule in the first place she’s just say “I’m free Saturday and Sunday” and when I would ask the specific date like what number she’d just say “Saturday and sunday” so I didn’t know she was referring to a different one and I’m so pissed I can’t talk to her right now or I’ll actually go off on her and then she’ll only respond with a kirby picture of him cutely running and I’ll actually go feral. Now I don’t even know if I want to have the joint party out of spite.

Long story short, I’m pissed at my friends for not working with me to plan a party, and now I’m not sure if I should have the party because I’m just annoyed at this point