MilkyBaraHonkers's Topics (165)

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LOL THE DOWNVOTES. people really got mad that you criticized that horrific plaid outfit

IKR LMAO

LMFAO!!!!

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If you don't like it, don't read it, and there are consensual sex scenes yes, and he already agreed to do it so it is consensual...

Okayyyyy but consent can ALWAYS be withdrawn and the fact that the seme literally woke him up and forced him.....?

girl bye- the reader has the right to criticize the work. this is why rape is fucking normalize in yaois

We all know this is totally wrong , but this is just fiction .no ones normalising it.. He is twisted messed up. Y fight over a dumb character

But this is actually normalized? 0.0 That's why there's so much rape in yaoi and why it is so common

That means killing , abuse , bullying , blackmailing, everything in mangas is also normalised?? Cz they are also common as far as ive read but still idk what to say anymore, these conversations are everywhere , rape mangas should be banned then! I wonder what else should happen other than that. Im literally so tired of all these complaints n arguements n people accusing others of supporting rape, incest , pedophilia n what not! Dont take it wrong , im not talking about you but some other people ive seen.

I understand your point but, in many of the manga that I have read that involve topics like killing and bullying, the authors do not draw any of the graphic scenes but instead, they draw panels that IMPLY that those things happen. And that difference is pretty important when comparing the topics you mentioned to rape, since most rape scenes are extremely graphic in manga (〜￣△￣)〜

So everytime a boyfriend or a sex friend wakes you up with sex, it's rape? You gotta wake up to the world, not everything is rape you know... What seems to be nornal in the yaoi world is everyone calling everything rape....

Yeshe is being rough, but they had already agreed so I don't think it's rape...

Yeah, it gets on my nerves like everyone gets so mad, They are just characters in a manhwa and not everthing is rape...

Ikr!!!!! Why does every single thing on the world ends up in rape!? Like arent there other crimes in this world !

Wherever i go peope be complaining . Like it becomes so suffocating sometimes n then they accuse u of some crazy, stupid, twisted person

The authors adress topics like these, because these topics should always be adressed, if people think that it is something normalized in manhwas e mangas, it is because it is normalized in the real world too, and most countries in the world don't have a good enough police or they discriminate against these crimes and so it goes unpunished many times, I love reading these topics because even tho it makes me sick, it is important to know and read these kind of things, like it is important to read books about the holocaust.

Girllll ! U won my heart , lets be friends .. lol

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It's actually still rape because he literally forced himself onto a sleeping person and consent can always be withdrawn, fyi ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

Whatever lets not fight anymore lol

I've never seen a manga/webtoon that there is a victim being okay with abuse, blackmail, violence etc. As a rape victim myself, i really feel uncomfortable when i see a character FEELING PLEASURE while being raped. Actually this is what makes me drive mad. There are so many mangas that have rape scenes in it but i dont hate all of them cuz some of them show rape as a bad thing, as it should. But when i see a victim being okay with rape, like "omg i feel so good!" or "oh you raped me but it's not a big deal i forgive you" i wanna punch myself in the face. It really triggers me & i think it's normalizing. After all, it's just my opinion. I'm not forcing anybody to drop. I just explained how i felt. I've been doing that on so many mangas, whether it's affirmative or negative.

Oh shit**** im so sorry!

It's okay

I didn't know we were fighting 0.0

We haven't seen the continuation so how do you know the consent was withdrawn?

Im glad u explained n i really really wish u happiness in your life!

Hmm, I just wanted to ask you something, because you have been a victim, which I hope you can get past it, like move on, and live a good life, so the question is: what would you say is the difference between rough or really rough sex and rape, and of course I know it's a question of consent, but many people say no in sex, like they say no but it's no like they want the other person to stop, which I understand, although I think it's kind of pointless to do that, I personally don't, but anyway how would you like differentiate it, because in my opinion it will only be rape if: first, you were not awake or capable of saying no (of course in that case it is also up to the person it self of thinking of it as rape or as one night stand or something), second saying no and maybe reinforcing that with some kind of struggle, or the sex being so rough it looks like someone beated you half to death, of course in the case that the person itself doesn't have some kind of fetish or specific desire that can only be fullfield by being beaten. But this is my opinion, and as I am not a rape victim, I would like to hear your opinion, I have a friend who was raped when he was little, but I don't have the courage to ask that kind of question because I don't know how much he's over it, seing as until recently he had prescription from a psychiatrist and had a regular consult to him, and if you don't feel confortable talking about it you don't have to answer either. I'm always in doubt what questions should be appropriated to ask him or not

First of all, it's okay to ask me. I moved on fast bcs i found out about it much later. The answer changes per person, but I'm gonna give you my opinion.
I was raped by my ex toxic boyfriend when i was in high school. He was really manipulative & always threatening me to send him nudes (or else he was gonna commit suicide

Hey! I answered you but from my device, only half of it is seen. If you cannot see the whole answer let me know! I'm going to write the whole answer again

I think I can only see half of the answer, it's great that you have moved on, my friend was raped when he was little by his uncle, so I know it has been more than 10 years, but still its not the kind of thing someone can get over easily. I always debate with other people in the commentaries when the manhwa has similar seens to these, I give my opinion, but I always doubt if it is right and all, I have never gonne through something like that, although I was bullied in the past, and I always think back to think about my flaws amd think what could I have changed in my attitude, what could I have done and things like that, and I always wonder if people that go through assault ou rape also do something like that too

So to sum up, one day he invited me to his house, we drank and he took advantage of me by threatening& manipulating me, i was forced to give consent. He did this a couple of times n i was super uncomfortable. I live in Turkey (mostly conservative) so i couldn't seek help from my parents& teachers etc. My old Facebook Yaoi Group helped me, they said it was a rape etc. I couldn't report him but i at least managed to break up with him. This is my rape story.+

Let's get to the second question. I like fucking rough. Really. I'm also into kinky stuff (bdsm, petplay etc) and lemme list the differences;
I always have a safe word with my partners. If smth is too much/ uncomfortable for me, i just say the word and it immediately stops. So yeah i dont mean it when i say no in these plays, but i can still express what i feel with safe words.
The difference is in rape: i felt so uncomfortable, my mind was on other things (mostly i thought ab my family), i wanted it to stop, i was disgusted and really like "wtf is going on rn?" i always thought whether i would regret this.
In consensual sex: head empty, i was wanting and feeling it, i was super comfy ab my body& everything, i was enjoying myself, i didn't think anything besides the dick in me, i was sure i wouldn't regret it later.
For me, it's not about rhythm. My rapist was super intense&slow with me. He kissed me all over, he prepared me, he was slow, everything was so vanilla.
In consensual sex on the other hand, mostly it was rough, kinky stuff.
Btw i don't have any trauma for vanilla sex. I still love and enjoy it when i do it with my partners.
After all, its all about the mood& your demands. If you do not demand a type of sex, it will never feel good. And it's always considered as rape.
Hope i answered all of your questions.

He's committed multiple felonies I can just smell it off him