LOL... So, what would you call people who love watching killers themed movies?? Psycho? After all, killing people happen in real life and it's such a horrible act. Does that mean they are okay with that? What would you call people who love watching BSDM? You might say, that's just a play and people involved in that fandom doing things with consent......
Since you put this issue very serious (like, literally posting here asking people), I'll answer seriously too. 1. Yes, I'll be honest, I'm straight girl who likes dicks so I prefer yaoi since it has more dicks in the sex scene. 2. It's not written as "fujioshi", it's "fujoshi". Fujoshi : girls who love yaoi. Since you're dude, you're "fudanshi" me......
People fine with rape in yaoi = hypocrites?