my mother works abroad so we usually just ask each other what we are doing during the day
she learned to be affectionate with words when she realized that we are growing apart (because, again, she's working abroad, ppl usually grow apart when they're not together and i'm glad my mother realized that) so our messages consist of casual talks and "i ...... reply
this is actually pretty common in our country (sadly) and i think there's an Facebook group for that (coz I remember looking for a CCA job which has a lot of Chinese handlers, they always look for a Filipina wife because we are "submissive" they say lol smh)
just tell your Ate to find alternative like an agency if she really wants to work abroad ...... reply
So I was reading this BL and he was licking his ear & his piercing and I was like "dayum that was hot" but I ick so hard after because that's kinda gross
coz i bet not everyone clean their ears everyday (i do to the point its bleeding but yeah most of people don't, base on my observation)
Bro what happened to the homepage section, i swear I have more than 900 "I already read" and more than 800 "I'm reading"
Is it a glitch? I noticed this happened a few years ago y'know the reading list count decreasing but I just thought of it as a glitch and will be fixed soon but now it happened again
I'm not a teen anymore, in my early 20s and I was happy learning that a person starts gaining weight faster when their in their 20s but the problem is I ain't gaining weight in my body, it's always the face so I have a round face now
what should I do? I am 40kg so reducing weight is not an option, anyone else in their 20s or older experiencing it?
I have this younger friend who's legal age already and recently, she told me that's she's pregnant and don't know how to tell her parents. The father? He's 17 years old, I already advised her way before she got pregnant that she should leave that man as he's a minor, their gap is 3 years.
She followed my advice for a while but he contacted her again telling he'll k!ll himself off if she doesn't take him back, he beg to her mother and he was crying. I recently discovered this, she didn't told me all of those things.
I advised again last January about their relationship as she told me that she doesn't like the guy anymore and their relationship is toxic as the guy is very abusive (throw things, punches the wall, etc. luckily he doesn't/never hurt my friend) so back to the story, they broke up at the end of January.
And yesterday, we learned that she's atleast 6 weeks pregrant because she told me that she haven't had her period for a while (got her a pregnancy test & serum test to be sure got the result a while ago).
So she reached out to the guy as she wants to keep the baby, the guy agreed to keep the baby and they're on good terms as the guy really likes her lol. Now, the problem is how can they explain to their parents that they're expecting a child?
Please note the complicated family dynamics as we are from South East Asia. What advice should I give? I honestly want to say to her that she should live with her parents and not the man's parents while being pregnant because as I told above, he's very abusive tho my friend is very strong willed so idk if that's a good advice. For the background: The guy is currently working, not studying. She's not working nor studying too. I really wanna help her by giving advice as I don't have any money lol and I also treasure her. Thanks!