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You think he doesn’t know that? The matter of the fact is that children are hard wired in their brains to unconditionally love their parents and seek approval from them. It’s basic biology. So why is it that no one ever asks “what tf did the parent do that would overwrite the hard wiring in the child? How badly did they screw up in order to force the child to hate someone they were biologically forced to unconditionally love?” His mum not only abandoned him BUT ABANDONED HIM WITH AN ABUSER!! “But he turned out successful!” Means nothing if he’s suffering and has suffered all this time! People who have never been in this situation won’t understand. No one will understand what it’s like to be forced to overwrite your unconditional love and biology in order to appropriately keep yourself safe unless you’ve lived it. He was forced to endure an abuser who by the way LEFT HIM WITH SEVERE PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGE TO THE POINT HE CANT TASTE ANYMORE!! I don’t think people understand how messed up that is. He was abused to the point he lost one of his main senses… imagine if that sense was sight or touch or hearing. He would be considered disabled. Blindness, deaf or severe nerve damage is considered to be a huge deal but why not any of the other senses? His sense of taste has been lost. It’s one of the main senses for a reason!! We have about 30+ senses overall but only 5 made it to basic education. That’s how important they are. And his mum is the cause of him losing it by abandoning him with the dad. She deserves nothing but hatred and disdain. No wonder she never sought him out. She knew she didn’t have any right to seek him after she abandoned her own child. Which btw, mothers are biologically hard wired to prioritise their children’s safety over their own safety. What does it say about the mother that she got away on her own?