
Putting consent is sexy as a tag to this manhwa and now I gotta drop this. It was nice while it lasted. There’s a big difference between cnc and whatever tf ml thought he was doing. Some people do like being pushed into situations but they ENJOY THE PUSHING. MC clearly wasn’t a fan of the pushing (sexually. He preferred it when it came to the romantics). I’m actually disappointed. I thought we’d finally get one where the top is pushy but only in a good way aka getting the bottom out of their comfort zone and giving them self esteem and courage but nope.

Someone’s feelings and them not giving consent means nothing to you huh? Okay then maybe garam can get you fired for harassing a customer and maybe he can put you to your homophobic family and church and your coworkers and maybe just maybe he can post public comments about how you dated someone then when you got caught dating, you blamed them and accused them of assaulting you just so that you can continue to be a nepo baby! How about that? No? That’s not what you want? Well maybe LISTEN WHEN OTHERS TELL YOU NO! I’m the wrong one. I would absolutely destroy someone’s entire life if they decide to harass me to kingdom come. I’m nice for the first 2 warnings but after that? Nuclear revenge. Garam should consider some of my plans.

I think he just needs to talk to a guide that isn’t his guide and listen to all the struggles guides have and then he can “understand” or at least acknowledge all that his bf is going through. To him, it’s not taehun the guide vs the man; it’s Taehun his other half. Guides view it how normal humans would view it though aka “does he like me because I’m useful or does he like me for who I am regardless of my use..?” Hopefully he can learn more about how guides think about things so that he can better learn how to support his guide.

All her actions indicate she’s a woman who’s making preparations before she succumbs to her terminal illness. She’s sorting out everyone else’s life without care of her own, she’s pushing everyone away when they get too close and she’s talking about people’s happiness and comfort for when she “leaves”. How does that not send alarm bells ringing in your head that this woman is extremely sick and she’s getting her affairs in order??? Either she’s dying or she’s suicidal. Those are the options and clearly no one cares to grill her on it. I know everyone is minding their own business cause she’s been kinda a lifesaver for everyone but come on!
First yaoi I’ve seen that does this in a realistic way. His kneejerk reaction is “absolutely not. End of discussion” but he *chose* to have a proper discussion about *why* he doesn’t want his old family to meet his very exciting family to be. Honestly, I hope he invites his brother and ditches the parents. I unfortunately have to live with my dad but if I had the option, I would cut ties completely with my parents and simply care about my baby sister. If I end up getting married someday, I don’t care if my parents never know or if they find out because of someone else on Facebook. And it’s less that I don’t care and more that I just don’t want anything to do with them. Some people don’t know how to treat their kids and some people stand by and watch abuse happen and neither of those people should be in your life. I know Asia is very family oriented but I’m Latin-African (not Hispanic) and we are also family oriented. It took a while but the rest of the family accepts my decision even if they disagree. It seems that his family also accept his decision. That’s the only important thing here.