He’s a crown prince of what I assume is a rather conservative state in which women aren’t given equal rights, responsibilities and duties as men. Not only is he completely ignoring and disregarding every single disrespectful and treasonous thing she says and does towards him and the imperial family, he also listens to her and tries to understand her when she talks about foreign concepts that would absolutely break the social norms in their world. And he did all of this without even knowing the full story and now that he knows most of it, he still doesn’t care. He just wants her and he wants her to be happy. That’s better than green flag, he’s the who Amazon rainforest! He is so forgiving and understanding but firm when it comes to her safety and yet he still tries to cheer her up and lighten the mood even when he’s mad at her (like when she poisoned herself). Genuinely gold standard. This is what men should be and anything less shouldn’t be tolerated.
Kazuma… I was you when I was younger and then I started to think “instead of treating them like young humans, treat them like drunk aliens who don’t know human language!” And now I somewhat understand kids. I still for the most part don’t like them because they’re loud and constantly getting themselves in dangerous situations so I have a near constant headache around them but I don’t hate them. They’re very cute! I just hope I can have my tubes tied so I never have any haha thanks author for showing that it’s okay to not like children and still want the best for them! People don’t understand that you can have both be true so this was nice to see!
What about her gf?? She agreed to date a girl and then cheated on her and we don’t see that they broke up so what happened to her? I feel bad that she got used ╥﹏╥
So he sent you elicit photos of someone else… and you have that person with you… and neither of you are going to the police and saying that that person took pornography of you that you didn’t consent to and is distributing it to those around you in an effort to stalk and harass you? But you have evidence on your bfs phone… YEAH MAKES TOTAL SENSE!!
I feel like the police wouldn't do shot because it seems in the vid that the uke was willingly having sex with the blond, and he could just say the uke did know about it and i don't see how they could prove any of it wasn't consensual. I mean i could be wrong, I'd like to think I would be, but I can't
Basically you can consent to sex and not consent to be filmed and to not only record it but also send it around is revenge porn and that’s a crime by itself too so 2 crimes we’re committed. The illegal filming of a sexual relation and the illegal distribution of said illegal filming. Most police officers do brush this off as a civil matter but as long as you frame it legally rather than “my ex sent my new bf videos of us together!! Help!!”, it should be fine.
But let this be a lesson to everyone to always always remember to stay safe and if you want to take vids or pics and it’s of your partner, get written consent from them and if it’s of you, give written consent and include some clause to the effect of “if this video/photo is distributed in ANY way or in any manner, you acknowledge that you committed a revenge porn crime.” It may sound really strange and silly to get a legally binding document from your lover but this protects both of you from having revenge porn out in the world but also from being accused of illegally recording your partner. Even better if you can get your partner to delete all of the pics/vids before you officially leave them for good. Stay safe and stay sexy!
Is that right? well i,m glad to hear that there would be something going to the police would do, but that would be the sensible thing to do, but since when is bl sensible? Very rarely. And yes we should all be careful of video taken because the internet will pass it around forever. Thanks for explaining the first part.
Yeah yaoi is infamous for ignoring logic and pretending the police don’t exist unfortunately ╥﹏╥
I grew up in a Latin-African Muslim household so I understand social pressure but as soon as I a legal adult, I grew a fucking spine and when my abusive mother tried to hit me, I grabbed her arm and stopped her. When she hurt me, I left. I didn’t allow her to treat me like shit. My life is my life and my choices are my own too. I even disowned her and I don’t even call her mum anymore. I call her by name when I have to interact with her. I put myself first and that took years of effort on my part and realising that I would the person with a frying pan if they did all the shit my mother did to me. “Old fashioned” isn’t an excuse anymore. You know what we do with older models? Dispose of them for a newer model. You know what we do with outdated information? We make it so everyone is aware it’s false and shouldn’t be trusted. Why not also with stupid thought processes? We got rid of the laws that enabled people to own slaves. We got rid of the idea that the world is flat. We got rid of the idea that infants don’t feel pain and therefore could be operated on without anaesthesia. We got rid of so many harmful and outdated things so why do we put up with this “old fashioned” bs?? Even my father who is 75, born 1950, knows better. It’s not “old fashioned”, it’s misogynistic, racist, sexist, ageist and more. I don’t understand it when grown adults who are clearly over 22 (allowing 4 years of working on yourself) accept such trashy treatment of themselves. It’s the authors fault because realistically, none of this would happen. This is rage bait because the author thinks making it frustrating and infuriating will get people to stay but really it’s pushing people away but it’s still so baffling to me that grown adults are allowing their parents to abuse them while putting up 0 fight. I understand as a child not fighting back but you’re literally the same height or taller and stronger than someone twice or three times your age! Even if you don’t play tit for tat and slap them right back, you can at the very least grab the hand before it hits you or leave after they’ve hit you and limit contact with such a toxic person that they think the best way to communicate is physical or emotional or verbal violence.
This is a PSA: you deserve better than toxicity and abuse. If someone disrespects you or treats you violently once, leave. Don’t let them do it twice because twice becomes thrice and it never ends. Protect yourself. Break the generational trauma. Let it end with their generation not yours.
If I could baby boy, I would jump into the story and kill him for you cause literally your whole life had been abuse after abuse and it’s just never ending. I think you should dishonourably discharge or desert or kill him. Nothing is more important than you leaving him.
It’s to obvious that the king is providing the perfect opportunity for pinkie pie to commit a crime and have witnesses so that they can use her to get the duke in jail for even bigger crimes. She’s a weak and pathetic woman and human who can’t even handle her own insecurities so she’s obviously not going to be able to handle being told she’s committed a huge crime and she’s going to be put to death unless she can confess her knowledge of crimes that the duke committed. It’s actually just that simple. It’s so common, I called it as soon as I saw pinkie pie in the hallway. The kings words just confirmed it.
I get it. The relationship is so fragile to begin with that you don’t want to put any pressure on the other person for fear that will be the straw that broke the camels back. It all feels so fake. Every gesture, every kiss, every I love you feels like they’re saying it to keep you rather than because they actually want to be with you romantically. It’s painful to be in a relationship like theirs. And what ML isn’t understanding is that MC isn’t doing this to be spiteful or out of jealousy or anything like that, he’s doing this because he feels like he’s on a tightrope and one wrong move is detrimental to his whole livelihood. The correct way to deal with this is to take it slow and from the beginning again. No sex, no kisses, no cuddles. You go on dates, you learn more about each other and pretend you knew nothing about them to begin with (that’s important to start over). Only then can you feel the relationship building and then intimacy can happen and words of affirmation can go on. It’s such a slow process though because the one who feels like they’re on a tightrope will feel like this is all some sort of test and won’t trust it for a really really long time so you have to be patient and be in it for the long haul. You’ve proved to them for the longest time that they aren’t date worthy and that you are an unreliable romantic partner and they’ve witnessed it so you’re going to have to prove each and every day that you can be trust worthy and reliable and also that they are worthy of love because you caused that insecurity. They wouldn’t be insecure with anyone other than you so it’s up to you to mend the cracks you caused. My ex didn’t do that the first time and we ended up breaking up after a very heated argument about why I don’t trust him. He’s trying again from the beginning but I still can’t see him as trustworthy yet since it’s only been a few weeks but it is helping me to overcome some part of the insecurity that I’m not good enough to date by seeing his efforts and patience in order to be with me. I hope ML can be patient and slowly rebuild trust and an actual bond rather than a trauma bond with MC and I hope MC can slowly learn that he is worthy of love and that ML does love him so he can show his love too.