Is adorable in theory but I had a bf like him and after a while it gets really frustrating that you have to explain everything including things that are embarrassing or frustrating and trying to leave to cool down gets challenged because they can’t understand why you need to calm down after a “discussion” that was actually an argument. They also tend to ask for really specific and unrealistic things since to them, they think it’s doable but for most people it’s not. I say this as a neurodivergent myself. It’s adorable and sweet how straightforward he is and how prepared he likes to be beforehand but it can always flip into he won’t do anything without being properly prepared first and that he says things that are horrific to hear just because he doesn’t understand that the context sounds bad… like the divorce thing he said. To him, that was a valid point of discussion and something they should probably discuss as a “just in case” in order to have less issues later when they have kids. However, to everyone else, he answered a rhetorical sarcastic remark positively saying that he would consider divorce should it come up. That’s a horrifying thing to say while on the flight to your honeymoon destination. It actually jinxes your whole marriage. It doesn’t seem like a huge deal right now but when it’s happening every single day and you can’t get mad at it because it’s a mental condition that makes them like that and they aren’t doing it to be a mean person, it’s exhausting and not many people can put up with that type of stuff. If he can learn and implement what he learns and if he can understand that an angry and frustrated partner shouldn’t be questioned so matter-of-factly and the first order of business should be to deescalate the situation, they can have a really productive marriage. Unfortunately, my ex did not learn and would poke the already sore spot to get more answers. My point is, don’t rush into a relationship without fully understanding what your limits are and what you can and cannot handle. It will just breed resentment if you can’t be honest with yourself about what you’re capable of and what you’re not.
We will send you on dangerous missions but don’t worry! Just call us and we will come rescue you!!
Uh oh! Looks like we missed your call! Don’t worry! Help is on its way!!
Uh oh! Looks like help got held up! Just stay there!!!
Woops! You’re both almost dead but at least you’re not!
Whoa whoa it’s not OUR fault! You called and we DID rescue you. We never once said we would rescue you quickly!
But since you decided to get mad at us, we will be pinning the blame entirely on you so no one can blame us cause we are NOT to blame! No sir!
Trust us! We got rid of the bad people but we are still at core the same! Don’t worry! You’re both safe here!!! Just rest and recuperate! Here’s a shiny new promotion!
Uh oh! We lost your friend! But it’s not OUR fault! How were we supposed to know this could happen? Nevermind that! Don’t be mad! We kept one of you safe didn’t we? Don’t forget about the promotion we gave you that you can’t use freely! That was great huh?
What do you mean you’re not gonna trust us? We did everything for you!! We rescued you when you called! We brought you both safely back to us! We saved you from corrupt people in our midst! We gave you a promotion! We kept you safe! We will even investigate the kidnapping of your friend free of charge! What more do you want from us?!?!?!
Honestly, it's them problem. It's their incompetence and their greed. K don't need their bs T.T
When you ask the universe to give you a sign and you say “nah that’s not a sign” so the universe sends you a gut punch instead LMAO
1. It’s seriously just not that deep.
2. 21 in human years is like 1.5-2 years in cat years so yes, he is an adult.
3. Cats are fickle and naive creatures. My cats believe im God just because I control the rain (shower and faucet) and that I control fire (stove) and wind (fan). They even believe I control the day/night cycle (curtains). Cats are smart but they aren’t THAT smart. The vast majority of them are survivalists and have intelligence surrounding survival. They can be trained so they do have other intelligence and they can learn to communicate with humans no matter what style of communication is used. Some cats even learnt to sign food so that deaf owners can understand what they need. Cats, by nature, look cute and naive and soft and small. The world’s greatest predator is the world smallest and cutest little cat and it’s got a 90 something % kill rate. The lion by comparison only has a 60% kill rate. Small and cute and deadly is a package deal. They use their cute and soft nature to seem harmless. It’s something the evolved to have.
Dogs by comparison were born to complete certain jobs. The fighting dog was created LITERALLY and selectively bred to be aggressive and serious and to go for the kill every time. It was created for such a reason for human enjoyment and although they no longer serve that function, they STILL hold that function which is why small dogs are so aggressive and hostile. They also age differently to cats. Dogs have their own age scale.
Nurture is also brought into this. A young domestic long haired cat who has always lived their life pampered until they hit a rough patch is very different from what is essentially a stray mutt fighting for its life from day one. My cats are exceptional at hunting but they are indoor cats and do not know what outside is like. If you find that type of cat naive… it is. It literally doesn’t know the outside world.
Please stop fighting against the fact that every animal is different with different skills and that this is a CAT book so the focus should be on a CAT and not some dog from an entirely other story. We read this for comfort and if that’s not for you, it’s absolutely within your right to stop reading. Let’s give this book the attention and focus it deserves.
I was so happy to see full volume and then this shit happens smh but at least he has an invincible shield lol
It would be so much better if there wasn’t casual SA and it was actually addressed and stopped. Everyone just accepts it as a thing that constantly happens and no one does anything about it. It’s honestly really sad. No one put it as a tag or a comment so I went in completely blind and ended up reading something that triggered me but I was too far in to drop. I hoped it would be a one or two time thing but nope. All 5 volumes had it. Just a warning in case anyone else is triggered by SA and wanted to read it.
Use your overprotective dad and say this dude is a stalker and have dad come to the rescue! You won’t be lying cause he is stalking you and since your dad loves you and cares for you, he’s more than willing to deal with this so you don’t have to.
She was right. She shouldn’t have let a stranger to him anywhere near his house even if it’s just to help do chores. If it was just about the chores, she shouldn’t have gone with him. There’s no excuse for letting a stranger to the owner around the owners house without supervision. I know they’re out in the sticks but I would have called the cops if this was my home.
Anal ripping pain is one of the most excruciating pains cause it feels like the body is literally ripping in half and it’s connected to a vital organ and he’s just champing it. Whatever he’s gone through, it’s worse than death and worse than being ripped in half.
U can literally tear it just from shitting bro it's not that dramatic
As someone who has had micro tears from pooping and as someone who has had forcible anal intrusion, they are nowhere near the same level of pain. I can tell you for certain that it’s nowhere near the same pain nor the same healing. Pushing out and pushing in are not the same considering only one of those is something the body is made to do. That’s like saying pushing a baby back through a cervix is nothing because pushing a baby through a cervix is possible and done frequently across the globe. Also the blood was not just from the rim ripping, it’s from the colon being stretched and ripped and THAT is something you go to the ER and possibly go into surgery for. It’s a huge deal.
Wild bc as someone who has done anal multiple times with various guys, there have been a couple times I've ended up bleeding and it was straight up not that big of a deal. It hurt but not anything near as dramatic as what u described! Guess it's down to the individual's pain tolerance
Why do a few updates that I’ve been reading have corrupted images? This one too… I can’t tell if my internet is dodgy or if this is an uploading issue.
Every update i read today had a question mark on so many panels
Thank fuck! I don’t need to call the internet company and be put on hold for hours ╥﹏╥ what a relief thank you