can someone tell me what's going on? im so confused nothing makes sense..
Its like meeting of the parents before marriage
how is he going to say he wants to be the dom's only partner but then has another partner himself???AND KEEPING IT A SECRET?!? yea i get he was trying to be helpful or whatever but idk kinda hate him for that...
If it's any help:
People tend to justify their actions as more circumstantial whereas others' as the result of their desire or personality
For ex if you were late you'd be aware of that train that never showed up, if someone else is late you'd think they were sloppy with time.
I think the same is happening with zen, it is difficult to think of oneself as the root of the problem via our actions (but easier to just stick a label on our head that we're the problem period, so it's easier to get influenced by the authority to do certain things since they'd know better and you finally aren't acting to your own accordance thus maybe it'll correct some of the problems you caused)
Believe it or not this type of ironic behaviour is way waaaay far too common
I am more interested by the fact that you believe (in my perception) Zen to be 100% in control of his actions
Do you believe that often in life?
Do you always feel in control or do you resent the lack of it and overcompensate?
girl it's just a FICTIONAL story and that's just my opinion...i don't need you to rant about it to me plus why are you so concerned with how i handle my life? maybe focus on your own instead of questioning mine.
I just opened a conversation... Thought it was interesting, in the abstract, your opinions and experiences etc
I do it a lot about mine so never believe it to be problematic, maybe nosy
But to answer your question:
I think you're too ragey and I am curious to find out why and if my guess is correct
idk what you want, all i did was post an opinion. if you were just trying to start a conversation, your first response was fine, or you could've posted your own comment like a normal person. but questioning my life is what made it 'too ragey'. if you wanted to discuss opinions, stick to the story instead of trying to analyze me. there’s no need for you to be curious about me—i’m just not interested in your psychoanalysis. maybe take that energy elsewhere, because honestly, it seems like you need a hobby.
Alright, let's reword my second comment and stick to the story (believe it or not, I still also would like to talk about it), how would you describe Zen's action to make everyone hate him as much as you do right now?
I will take it into account, thanks for telling me you're not interested in the psychoanalysis of yourself
Unfortunately I have a feeling that analysing the fictional characters would still leave you suspicious of me so feel free to express any further displeasure
idk why you’re taking it so seriously, but i already said i’m not interested in the extra analysis. maybe find someone who actually cares to keep this conversation going. i’m done with it, and honestly, you might want to take a hint before you embarrass yourself further.
I have a habit of getting attached to pitiful things and I have a disproportionate sense of patience, trust me, with these two things embarrassment is the least of my worries in life
Plus I didn't find someone else as angry to have a contrasting opinion with
Actually this interaction has been quite fruitful... The back and forth made me curious enough to check your account and from there I got the drive for the raws
Would you also be offended if I expressed my gratitude? Perhaps it's embarrassing for you, I wonder...
girl, if you’ve got that much time to dig through my account, you seriously need to get a life—obsessing over strangers online is pathetic and not doing you any favors. i’m not offended; it’s honestly sad how much energy you’re wasting on this. good luck with that ‘disproportionate patience,’ but maybe try applying it to something that actually matters. i have way better things to do than entertain your nonsense, so find someone else to psychoanalyze or at least someone who actually cares.
whoever is posting the uncensored versions: THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!! i hope both sides of your pillows are cold tonight and everything good comes your way! much love and appreciation
link to raws i got from QuietUnobtainable (they posted it earlier)!!!
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/14446525/
what does copium mean? everyone's mentioning it but idk what it means :(
… A metaphorical opiate taken in order to cope with loss or disillusionment, often leading to one becoming detached from reality and in denial of their situation------ that's what I found hope that kinda helped
ok..what does it mean in the context the guy said it? im sorry im still kinda confused like is he giving an insult?
the story itself was pretty good, but im a lil unsatisfied and disappointed with the ending :/ it just felt like it ended abruptly. i thought that since "run away assistant.." was really good, that this would also have a satisfying ending and a few sides. i hope the author reconsiders and writes at least a few sides to make up for it
can someone explain why yi-rim got surgery on his head? i remember it was mentioned that he needed surgery for his pheromones, but that shouldn't be on his head or is it??
wasnt it his neck
it shows like a scar or something on the side of his head near his ear though thats why he gets headaches
i loved it sm!!! but i dont understand why jj was getting so much hate he was definitely drastic and sometimes took it too far but honestly i feel like he wasnt wrong in his actions. to me, it felt like after the breakup he was treating leo the same way leo was treating him (in a more drastic & dramatic way) like only meeting up for sex and being cold. we saw leo didnt do couple-y things with jj bc it was a hassle but would gladly drink/go out with other people (which is pretty cold) and jj mentions that it felt like leo would have a glazed look over him whenever he saw jj. these actions (and more) from leo hurt jj pretty badly and while i do think he should've spoken up, i think that he tried to make leo feel the same way he felt (which obviously worked and thats when leo realized his mistakes). ik people said that jj shouldve spoken up but we were shown that leo would just not listen and jj couldn't talk to him bc leo was never sober or away from his games. despite this, i really love leo