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I think that it's okay for you to think yaoi is disgusting, everyone can have their own opinion. Though you should be more open minded. If you trully view him as a friend you should respect him if one day he comes out as being gay. If it does come to him liking you then reject him normally like saying "im sorry I can't accept your feelings, i don't feel the same way." I thin lb this is more about being able to accept people's sexuallity. In the end you should probably talk to him how you're feeling about this situation

first of all, i think it is already brave and nice enough of you to be his friend despite you not being a fan of yaoi, however that part about what if he becomes gay or start liking you, well, he's your friend, right?...so what if a friend is gay, he's still himself, the same friend that you know for how long you have known him....remember, that the choices you make decides the future....he's still the same friend past, present, and maybe future, but words are powerful things you know....so don't say things you will regret...ask yourself the question, if you had known he was gay to begin with, would you have been his friend anyway? well, people's answer changes, but you know what he likes, and i think it is also brave of him to tell you about it, most guys i know would not want to admit that they read it, for some same reasons as yours....even if he did turn out to be gay, would you cast him aside because he wasn't what you expected of him? did you expect anything of him, of him to be straight when you became his friend? HE'S YOUR FRIEND! SO WHAT IF HE DID TURN OUT GAY! WAS YOUR FRIENDSHIP SO FRAGILE THAT IT WOULD BREAK JUST BECAUSE HE SAID HE'S GAY?! if it did, then that is just cruel, IN MY OPINION.....its your choice, but would you really lose a friend whom you probably trust and he trust you too, over something like "he's gay?" DON'T BECOME THOSE TYPE OF PEOPLE!
also with the thing that if he liked you.....there are many love in this world....people fall in and out of love everyday....however, the present answer is, "do you like him that way?" IF NOT, THEN SAY SORRY, YOU'RE FRIENDS, BRO....its not like yours or his life will end with that...
I SUGGEST FOR NOW, YOU FOCUS ON THE FACT THAT YOU'RE ALREADY THINKING LIKE THAT WITH A FRIEND THAT LIKE YAOI....:

What would you do if he did say he was gay? Cast him aside? Pretend he didn't exist? Be a homophobe toward him? Treat him with disgust?
if he come out to you, HE TRUST YOU ENOUGH TO TELL YOU!!

If he is interested in you....its your answer to him. DON'T BE A JERK...tell him your real feelings straight out....you guys are friends!!

REMEMBER....would you lose a friend over something like a person being gay or them being interested in you?
if its awkward, some space, but don't lose your head and lose this friendship!

SORRY FOR THE LONG LECTURE....I HOPE IT HELPS, BUT ITS STILL YOUR CHOICE, JUST DON'T REGRET IT!

If you hold it against him if he comes out as gay, should he hold it against you that you are hetero? Sexual preference does not change who the person is - if he is your friend, you should support his freedom to choose - otherwise you are not really friends ... I know from personal experience many friends who came out and it did not change how I felt about them.

I sometimes read manga with the same gender shipping. Although, i wasnt interested in it, it turns out different if its the opposite sex maybe. Thus, i dont blame if u dont like yaoi cuz ur a guy maybe yuri would be better. BUT THERE IS FREAKING MANY GENRES OUT THERE AND THERE ARE PLENTY TO CHOOSE FROM. EVERYBODY'S TASTE IS DIFFERENT. if ur friend becomes interested in you then tell him ur feelings, what would forcing even do. (︶︿︶)＝凸 then it will be "we'll always be bros and then everything will turn out alright" no big deal

i never said that i would break our friendship. he still my friends, how long is it. but thanks your opinion.

So considerate of u for seeiking advise.
I think is normal for a man not to like yaoi,much like me that dont like yuri. Becaue yaoi aim to please girl and yuri to please men.

Regarding this,maybe you should have a talk wth him about this and since you all value ur friendship,just ask him not to mention about it since it make u uncomfortable about it. But u guys can talk about other things like sport,weather and ur job. Just tell him nicely that u are not into this stuff and ask him to come to this site and befriend wth all yaoi fundushi girl here that more than willing to discuss 69kama sutra poition of men if u ask in board (ghahahaaaa...just jocking,but they are wlling to dacuss about yaoi next plot or who should ship with who) after all,why limt ur fiend with just ur surrounding area ur a born to?

And about if he have feelings for u,if u really not interested, try to kindly him

*I mran kindly reject him....i notice lots of spelling mistake,this what happened when u use phone.Its hard to type

Actually it doesn't matter to me sometimes I read yuri instead of yaoi and I'm a girl, it doesn't mean I'm les or bi (I'm actually asexual) it's just my personal taste.

Anyway being scared if your friend is gay is nothin to be scared about.

There are plenty of men who read yaoi and women who read yuri but are straight.

If your friend does have interest in you one day the please deal with it maturely and say sorry but you're not interested.

Man more mistakes on grammar and spelling.... Sorry about that my I pad isn't reacting as well as it use to.....
I mean't "of your friend being gay"*

Personally I don't think you have any right to complain about what your friend is reading. By what right do you have to tell him something is forbidden or wrong if he enjoys it? Doesn't matter if you think he might 'turn gay' which guess what doesn't actually happen. If you don't want him to talk to you about what he's reading them tell him that. Otherwise keep your opinions to yourself. No one has the right to dictate what another person wants to read.

Sorry, I'm not trying to chase you away or anything. However, I'm wondering... if you find it a great discomfort that your friend reads yaoi, it suggests that yaoi is uncomfortable with you to some degree, and if that's the case I have to wonder why you've chosen this site to read manga, when it clearly accentuates yaoi. I know there's people who come here to read other manga besides yaoi, and perhaps there are users with no interest in reading yaoi at all, but I think if they found yaoi uncomfortable they'd chose another site, which is why I find your situation rather strange, and I have to wonder about the credibility of your story. I'm sorry if I've wrongly accused you of lying, but recently we've had an onslaught of trolling, hence my suspicion.

Don't panic. First of all, fudanshi don't always becoming gay. But if someday he come out to you as gay please be open minded and accept him as friend. Gay people don't always attacking or jumping to their normal straight friends. It only happened in manga. In real life it could be crime of sexual harassment and i don't think your friend will go that far remembering your friendship (if he come out as gay). If you are afraid (if he come out) why don't you hang out with more than the 2 of you. So you build up more brotherhood friendship. You know, I believe gay people always respect the normal people. There are so many gay people who can stay calm even if they they are with many boys. Because just because becoming gay doesn't mean they lose their sense and become sex animal. That's all I could say. I speak from experience

First of all, you don't have to like yaoi. That's like saying, I don't like apples like how my friend does, but should I force myself to like it? The answer is a no. Secondly, do not assume that just because a person likes yaoi they're into males. That's not always true. In fact there are a lot of straight people who like yaoi. Thirdly, IF your friend was gay and IF he liked you... so what? Don't focus on the fact that he's gay. Respond in the way you'd respond if a girl who you don't like asked you out.