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same....I could kill everyone in this manhwa and not feel an ounce of guilt

Can you elaborate I just can't see how this drags down one type of women. The "antagonist" of this arc just seems like nothing more then a manipulative, evil person that straight up sexually harasses men (which somehow turns into them loving her which is imo the much bigger problem with this arc). Imagine if the roles were reversed and a man was doing that oh boy.


So how is this slut shaming? I honestly can't see it please explain.
I'm not trying to invalidate your point, I just can't understand it.
Also I agree that the earlier arcs were better.

thank u for being so polite !!

for me the major point towards the phrase slut shaming is how they portrayed the women in this manga except for the female lead. if anyone would show interest or chase after the ml's, it would automatically be put under the category of slut. even for this last female lead who's chasing after married men, i don't want to use such a derogatory term such as slut because of the double standards that condone the word in this society.

the reason all these female characters seem so stupid or bitchy is because we don't have proper insights to their lives (truthfully none of the people in the character arcs except for the male lead do) and i wish that changed.

the reason i used the term slut shaming is because a lot of the readers have used her chasing after multiple men or chasing her sexual pleasure as a way to shame her. while i don't agree with her behavior (ESPECIALLY INFIDELITY) that does not excuse using the word slut or just paying so much attention to her sex life which for if she were born in another gender would just show her sexual prowess or how high status she is with the opposite gender.

nah if she was born a men then she would still be a slut, man-whore etc.

So it's not an Issue with this arc in particular but more of a trend in mangas and media in general, like in all media the second FL is automatically a bitch for going after the ML while two or more ML for one FL are part of the course. I agree with ttisaaa though now days we are finally starting to call out men on that behavior too (if it even needs calling out, like since when is it Illegal to like the same person as someone else and pursue them?). also Su Luxia is part of the problem like when she gets with men in Arcs does she actually like them/ care for them or is she just stringing them along? I know the stories with them are cute but it still bugs me, like in the vampire story he is waiting for her to come back and she never will it just rubs me the wrong way.

I mean they do consciously know that who they're with, has someone and continue their actions. You're not gonna tell me that cuz of some trauma they might have is why they consciously continue to stay with someone who is taken. At that point it isn't even about slut shaming its about being a good person and morally making the good choices.. you can sleep around f as many as you want but if you know this isn't someone you should mess with don't. It's that simple if you continue to mess with them knowing they're taken you're just as guilty, which is what most of the women in this story are. They use the men for their own selfish gain sometimes revel in the fact that and the men could care less so long as they don't get caught. Sorry but I feel strongly about this if it came off aggressive

oh yeah i totally agree. if a girl wanna sleep around for fun, then go for it by all means because there’s nothing wrong with it if it’s not harming anyone and staying safe. but the fact that that girl is constantly aiming for taken men then that’s not exactly ok. she’s sleeping with taken men for fun and ruining many people’s life and feels no remorse. at that point i believe that it’s fine to call someone a slut. if a man were to do the same thing then he too should be called a slut. harmless sleeping around is not ok to be call a slut but if it’s done with malicious intent then sure but that’s just my 2 cents

i just read this entire conversation, and i have nothing to add from it but this has been one of the most civilized convos i have seen so prop to all of you decent human beansヾ(☆▽☆)

True.I agree on their points and No one's calling the other dumb nor spouting curses to their face because they have a different opinion. They even said their opinion politely, what is this sorcery

Oh, please. She's not sleeping with men in any sort of normal manner. She's literally TARGETING men, taken men, in order to feed her ego and"win." She's using people and she's a stone cold bitch.

That the men in this aren't any sort of noble characters doesn't change that she uses sex as a game and stealing men as a sport.

That's a SuperSlut.

And I will shame if I damn well feel like shaming evil bitches and evil bastards who use people sexually for their "fun."

It's beyond going after "taken" men. It's using seduction/sexuality for manipulation for not reason other than causing chaos and feeling superior.

Whether a man or woman does this, it's evil.

And there are many people who think sleeping around is unhealthy and immoral. Poeple can differ on this, obviously, as we don't all have the same standards or ideals, but if someone thinks sleeping around is wrong, then they can think that and shaming THEM is not differnt than slut-shaming. It's imposing a moral code. And if imposing a moral code is problematic, then don't do it about slut-shaming, or that is called hypocrisy.

This . All of this please, author-san.

yes so true i love how the girl is the “ masculine”one and the boy is the “ feminine” and how the friend are the basic cute looking one that would hella cute together