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I feel like y'all forgive the ml so easily in these stories and the fact that people use the excuse "well the MC did bad stuff too why aren't you talking about her" huh? We're not talking about the MC we're talking about the ml and for me I feel like he could have let her in on what he was trying to do he had no reason to be disrespectful to her when they were alone and the way he did it still got her killed you're telling me the best plan he had was to treat her and his son like garbage 100% of the time to protect her? How does that work? All I did was read the spoilers but I'm still missing how that makes him a good guy because he did it because he loved her? Okay? Didn't help her all that much now did it buddy I don't understand how he thought that not letting her in on what he was doing was going to be a great plan all he did was bring her down and make her feel like shit both alone and together he could have tried and told her SOMEHOW you're telling me there was absolutely no way to notify her about his plans even it was just once and then he was a dick to her all the rest of the times? I can't believe that